How much you trust your SP

[Harvey]

If you see an SP for the second time around, do you tell her your real name?. Do you tell her what you do, just curious to know how you guys think and how much you trust our SP. I for one never ask for their names as it would be rude. What other kind of info you tell the babes?
Ladies are welcome to answer this thread as well.

 

[RJDm]

Same here like my privacy

 

[silverpiratetears]

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I don't share personal details . I actually get a little uncomfortable with how trusting some SP's are . The stuff they reveal to
complete strangers makes me shake my head some times . I guess it must seem innocent to them but letting strangers know
where you hang out or live is not a good idea IMO .

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[Dream Girl]

After several visits I don't have an issue telling them my name etc. I live my life in the open for the most part anyhow so its not like I have something to lose. I keep any kind of personal info sharing to just myself, no gossiping about other providers, no info on other pooners I may know......

 

[Bad Jelly]

If you have nothing to lose WTF. If you are Blackmail material well "Loose Lips, Sinks Ships".

 

[Saramlou]

I always tell my real name except on here..lol. Im not married so I dont have a lot to hide .I have spent multiple hor sessoins talking about everything in my life and some have told me their real names ,where they live and I got a couple a phone numbers as well as telling me about their lives and childhoods.I really dont see the big deal unless I had a SO.

 

[LenaLumpLump]

Only couple SPs know my real name, but those ladies i know them really well. So i dont see anything wrong with it. Because i know their real names too

 

[Jeff will come back!]

I dont see any point to tell my personal information to SP that i will be seeing her for an hour or two.

 

[Tearany]

Some SP's know my real first name and what I do.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I never understood that either

 

[Cleopatra]

+1

 

[anasttqq]

I like to keep a very low profile, personal info is a no no with me.

 

[madcowbutcher]

I don't see a problem with telling them my real name. We don't share last names anyway, so where's the harm? Besides, my take in the hobby is to make the experience as real as possible. As for revealing anything more, well, it then falls to an exchange: She reveals something, I reveal something. It's a fair exchange and strenghtens the rapport. I prefer to practice discretion, not secrecy.

 

[Sonia]

I tell SP's my real first name...I don't want them "calling out" my name and me looking at them thinking "Who the hell are you taking to" if I gave them a fake name.

If the chemistry is right, the SP is usually the first to start spilling personal info, for the most part I sit and listen and take it all in with some comments inserted here and there...kinda like digits..hehe. I thought that it was their turn to be on the psychiatrist couch; a bit of a role reversal. The SP's that I have had good converstations with are usually pretty open with me and appreciate the ear.

I too have had quite a few phone numbers/real names/seen outside of the hobby. I have an SO, so yes, I know I'm playing with fire, but I also have a lot of female friends so again, outside the hobby, they are just my "friends".

I don't think I would pass any info on to the SP if I didn't trust her.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Apparently I can't answer a question from any woman in this industry directly. I don't think it is conscious, but it does help keep things mysterious.

 

[Artism]

For me privacy is a big issue. I never book with my board handle or even talk about it. I'm even more vigilant after this Tiger Woods thing.

 

[BETTY- Doing The Do]

I know that some SPs are definitely too naive and sharing too much personal info.

But many are smarter than you think. Many have fake-real names, fake-real occupation, fake-real neighborhood, fake-real hometown, etc. After a while, it gets tiring to avoid answering intrusive question, and some clients really don't get a hint, so many of us just come up with a fake-real persona in addition to our SP persona. The really smart ones have fake-real persona that are close enough to the truth so that they can talk about it without getting confused in their white lies and details, but far enough from it and with enough misinformation that their privacy and personal life are protected.

 

[jade scarlette :)]

I actually have fun being whomever I feel like being during the fantasy.

I change my name all the time and I have been a doctor, firefighter (the ladies love this profession), politician, judge, lawyer ect. The one job I have never ever used is cop, that would be a session killer.

 

[Valeria]

Jiggy, I think you are onto something there with the Fire Fighter gig. I bet that does help the mileage provided you have the body to pull it off.

 

[nitwig//0]

I feel so inadequate now