There is verification for men here. I am pretty sure this is how it works as this is how I've done it, but not 100% sure this is the correct way to do it....
You need to contact the providers that have seen you and ask them to verify you. At this point, they will need to send a pm to FM with link to your profile, telling him that they have seen you and are vouching for you.
At this point and time, I couldn't agree with Slackerfreak more...the reference system that was in place is screwed...for various reasons. First off, we no longer know which ladies are/aren't compromised. Obviously, some ladies were vouching for LE. Secondly, lets say joeblow, who just signed up for an account after the boards disappeared, contacts me here saying he was Joeblow on the other boards. How do I know it is the same guy??
Its a crap shoot right now.