Ursus
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People often ask me how I am so successful in terms of landing Chinese girls. They think I am 'lucky' because I have a Baby's Mama in China and an ex-wife who is Chinese, as well as having many Chinese girlfriends along the way. I often get asked for advice about how to land a Chinese girlfriend or wife, so I thought I would write a summary - here, below - to share my wisdom.
First things first, throw out the belief that you are a 'good-looking white guy' that Chinese girls are attracted to.
Chinese girls, unlike Western girls, don't care about how handsome you are. When a Chinese girl says you are handsome, what she is really saying is that you look clean, neat, respectful and professional, or at the very least, as though you are active and productive. To a Chinese girl, a man who is living a decent life is handsome. It has nothing to do with how you look physically.
Anyways, with that aside, let me tell you what a Chinese girl either wants to avoid in a partner or what they look for in a man:
1) Mangina Liberal Male Cuck with no Backbone
If you are a Liberal, Mangina Cuck, a Chinese girl will despise you as being weak, stupid and dishonest. Chinese culture and Chinese girls are 'right-wing' idealogues. They hate PC culture and the mindset of many metrosexual men who espouse left-wing politics. If you start talking about feminism and minorities being oppressed, or Islam being a misunderstood religion of peace, or racism etc., the Chinese girl you are trying to impress will resent you and will not be interested in you, at least as much as she would be if you were conservative, more alpha, etc.
2) A man with addictions or wasteful habits
Chinese girls are money driven, even more so than most girls. If you waste money with smoking, drugs, gambling or some other unnecessary habit, the Chinese girl will see you as unfit for life-long partnership. While HK women like to gamble, mainland Chinese girls will view you as a risk due to your bad habits.
3) Family Oriented
A white girl won't care much if you don't take family and the future seriously, but a Chinese girl will. When you meet a Chinese girl, if you say you haven't though about having kids or not and you haven't thought about your future, the Chinese girl will immediately classify you as not being serious and will not be interested in you.
4) Poverty and lack of assets
All girls want a wealthy man, but a Chinese girl - from the mainland - wants a man who has assets so that the family is strong and has a good future. This differs from a white girl who wants you to have money and assets so that she can take those things from you in a divorce, down the road. Both Chinese girls and white girls look for the same thing in terms of wealth, but the Chinese girl has honourable motivations, where as the white girl is looking to robb you in the future.
5) Too horny or too focused on sex
Chinese girls have sex to have kids. They don't have sex for the sex. A white girl will give you sex and perform in the beginning of the relationship simply for the sex part (and to hook you of course), but a Chinese girl thinks of sex as a way of showing her comittment to you. And as a method to have children and start a family. The Chinese girl is very straight forward, simple and obvious. There is no hidden motive with a Chinese girl giving you nookie. All nookie offered by the Chinese girl has a long-term purpose. It is an investment on her part. If you display perverted behaviour or deviant sexual interest during courtship with a Chinese girl, she will see you as a risk and walk away from you. First she will warn you and ask you to stop, and if you dont, she will look for a more 'gentlemanly' guy to plan her future with.
More to come..............................
Stay tuned
First things first, throw out the belief that you are a 'good-looking white guy' that Chinese girls are attracted to.
Chinese girls, unlike Western girls, don't care about how handsome you are. When a Chinese girl says you are handsome, what she is really saying is that you look clean, neat, respectful and professional, or at the very least, as though you are active and productive. To a Chinese girl, a man who is living a decent life is handsome. It has nothing to do with how you look physically.
Anyways, with that aside, let me tell you what a Chinese girl either wants to avoid in a partner or what they look for in a man:
1) Mangina Liberal Male Cuck with no Backbone
If you are a Liberal, Mangina Cuck, a Chinese girl will despise you as being weak, stupid and dishonest. Chinese culture and Chinese girls are 'right-wing' idealogues. They hate PC culture and the mindset of many metrosexual men who espouse left-wing politics. If you start talking about feminism and minorities being oppressed, or Islam being a misunderstood religion of peace, or racism etc., the Chinese girl you are trying to impress will resent you and will not be interested in you, at least as much as she would be if you were conservative, more alpha, etc.
2) A man with addictions or wasteful habits
Chinese girls are money driven, even more so than most girls. If you waste money with smoking, drugs, gambling or some other unnecessary habit, the Chinese girl will see you as unfit for life-long partnership. While HK women like to gamble, mainland Chinese girls will view you as a risk due to your bad habits.
3) Family Oriented
A white girl won't care much if you don't take family and the future seriously, but a Chinese girl will. When you meet a Chinese girl, if you say you haven't though about having kids or not and you haven't thought about your future, the Chinese girl will immediately classify you as not being serious and will not be interested in you.
4) Poverty and lack of assets
All girls want a wealthy man, but a Chinese girl - from the mainland - wants a man who has assets so that the family is strong and has a good future. This differs from a white girl who wants you to have money and assets so that she can take those things from you in a divorce, down the road. Both Chinese girls and white girls look for the same thing in terms of wealth, but the Chinese girl has honourable motivations, where as the white girl is looking to robb you in the future.
5) Too horny or too focused on sex
Chinese girls have sex to have kids. They don't have sex for the sex. A white girl will give you sex and perform in the beginning of the relationship simply for the sex part (and to hook you of course), but a Chinese girl thinks of sex as a way of showing her comittment to you. And as a method to have children and start a family. The Chinese girl is very straight forward, simple and obvious. There is no hidden motive with a Chinese girl giving you nookie. All nookie offered by the Chinese girl has a long-term purpose. It is an investment on her part. If you display perverted behaviour or deviant sexual interest during courtship with a Chinese girl, she will see you as a risk and walk away from you. First she will warn you and ask you to stop, and if you dont, she will look for a more 'gentlemanly' guy to plan her future with.
More to come..............................
Stay tuned
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