How to you introduce your new girl friend when you are somewhat embarrassed

[hatchet1bravo]

about her? When I first started hooking up with my girlfriend it was only for sex, we never even left her apartment. When I wanted some, or she wanted some, we would just call, and I would go over there. Well, after a 5 months of this I started to like her. She is a "well feed girl" but does have a very pretty face and great personality. Now I have to find a way to bring her into the group without my friends judging me, and her feeling awkward around them, any ideas?

 

[Carmen]

If you really like this girl who cares what your friends think. What matters is your feelings for her, that's why you are dating her, right? And if your friends can not accept your girl then maybe they just aren't true friends. Don't let your friends say any crap about her.

 

[Mikaila Cox]

dont worry, she is probably embarrassed of you too, I mean, what kind of tool takes pics of himself half naked in the bathroom mirror? Ur not good looking either so u 2 are great for each other

 

[OfficialErob]

all you had to do was give her a call when you wanted sum and she came over???

pimp status: 100%

 

[just the girl...]

you shouldn't be embarrassed of her. if you like her your friends are just going to have to respect that.

 

[Hello Kitty Luva]

I had to take a deep breath before I answered this question. Ok here we go. Y'all were 1st booty calls to each other. You did this for 5 months and I'm guessing the sex was great. Now you like her. Do you like her cause she gives great sex? Do you like the woman that she is? If she is good enough for your in bed, why treat her any different outside the bedroom? Was she chubby when you met her? These are questions you need to ask yourself. If you have to "find a way to bring her around your friends", then this is not your REAL LOVE girlfriend.

Look, if you want to keep this strictly as a booty call, there is nothing wrong with that. But when you decided to put a label on it, this changes things. So what if she is on the chubby side, you still like it in the bed and it doesn't bother you. She must be a beautiful person in order for you to be with her at all. Treat this woman with respect. Talk to her about your feelings. Don't lead her on and then get her feelings hurt.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Thats the golden rule. Good luck

 

[Danielle Mena]

what is the problem here exactly? I mean, you are ugly...she is ugly too...so what is there to be embarrassed about? I guess you work on your body to cancel out your butterface, huh?

 

[Jaz]

social outing, if they treat her bad, call them out on it. if they continue it, then bail on the gathering and go do something with just you and your gf. if you like her and she likes you, who cares about what your friends think. they either accept her or they dont, if they're going to judge you and treat your gf bad because she's not part of the norm, then who needs friends like that anyway. good luck!

 

[vgonz701]

LMAO!!

She has quite a keeper on her hands

 

[Chris]

why bring her into the group at all? I mean if you're just using her for sex then leave it as that, count your blessings because she could be giving you nothing at all!

 

[Hana Naboulsi]

that is awful! if yoiu see great things about her, screw what others think! if they care about you they accept her if shes great!

 

[TheOne]

just start doing things with her

don't let what others think hurt your relationship

if she is good enough to have sex with, she is good enough to be seen in public with you

peace

 

[Jack]

Some thoughts:

Be confident in who you are! If you like someone, despite the silly main stream flaws shallow people might brand them with, stand up and treat them as your friend - treat them as you would like to be treated. If you were at a party with a room full of Brad Pitts, how would you like your ladty to treat you? How would it feel to be treated like a second class nobody?

You lady is with you and both of you have much value, what others think doesn't matter. Do not give control of your life over to others. Be proud of your lady, it will make both of you happy.

Just saying...
Jack

 

[John Smith]

There's no need to be embarassed. Female friends may even like you more because you are showing them that you can be with a girl that's less attractive. Embarassment would indicate you are a childish and immature person.
Guys really don't care anyway unless they're immature as well. Most male friends would just be happy that you are "getting some".

 

[travis pack]

That's messed up man, if u have shame you shouldn't be hitting it. You must be pretty ugly to if your still with a girl you think is ugly

 

[Sara B.]

Dude, you're not embarassed by her, you wouldn't be with her and like her if you were. You're afraid and intimidated by your friends. What I'd do is be proud. Unapologetic. Tell anyone of your friends or the group if they razz you that they don't know what they're missing, and mean that. They don't. If you are into her, don't let fear of others reactions (which are just razzing- and they'd do it with any other situation too) get in the way. Be proud. She sounds great.

 

[Darla]

If you actually liked her, you wouldnt be worried about what your friends think.

Do her a favor and let her go, she doesnt deserve that.

 

[lina]

You are a jerk. Why are you embarrassed about your girlfriend?
She's good enough for sex, but not good enough to be introduced as your girlfriend?
You're such a tool. I hope she realizes she can do so much better than an douche like you and dumps you on your ass.