I introduced them and now they're best friends?

[x_babygurl_x]

Sorry, the following might be a little long to read but I hope you can help me.

Couple of months ago, I introduced one of my closest friends to another one of my closest friends. I love friendships and it would definitely make it a lot easier for me if these two knew each other.

It turns out that both of them have now clicked so well that they do everything together (shopping, chilling, doing each other's hair at each other's houses) ... all of which I'm not part of. They don't call me or let me know that they will be hanging out. It really hurts. I usually find out all this information through another mutual friend.

It just really hurts that they don't even acknowledge me. I have confronted both of them, telling them how I feel. They don't seem to care and just say how I'm being jealous. That has hurt even more, and I don't know what to do.

Do i still try to talk to them? Do I just move on? Thing is, it's not easy. Especially when we all go to the same school, and have a lot of other things in common.

I feel so sad and empty. Please Help. Thanks.
Wow! Thanks guys for all your answers!

 

[Annie Is Not Ok MJ....]

well...if they were true friends they wouldnt confront you of being jealous.

just move on...if they dont care how you feel, they arent true friends.

 

[mo ree uh]

I know you already know that but that really sucks.
If you made it very clear to them that you feel left out and hurt then you should move on. Don't make a huge deal about it. Don't create a lot of drama. All you need to do is just try to get over them and get closer to different people. Also, you don't always need to be friends with someone you are really similar to.

 

[T a r a n]

Ok if it was me, i would invite them both over and tell them you feel excluded in what there a part of, and tell them all of you guys should hang out together, instead of leaving you out.

 

[♥x.wyndi grace.x♥]

i'll be your friend
or at least try to help.


plan things with them. invite them to do something with you, like shopping or going to the movies or whatever you do. contribute to the conversation (don't just 'talk') and don't wait for them to be invited. i wish you the best, but if they start ignoring you more and more, start talking to some of your other friends that you might not be as close to as them. everyone needs good friends, trust me.

 

[BOOM shaka Lakaa]

I think you should try to talk to them one more time. Make an effort to do things wtih them. If they're still blowing you off, then just move on.

 

[Vietnam War Veteran]

Move on and remember the lesson.

 

['‿' ѕαℓιηα '‿']

omg the same thing happened to me.i introduced my closest friend to another one of my besties and they left me out so i just found new friends.i know its hard because im sure you guys were really close,but if they keep doing this,you should just move on =)

good luck