I want My gf But can't introduce her to Family?

[Gangster He]

Me and this girl have been together for almost 5 months I met her family going to her home but I can't bring her home because she is Latin and I am Asian.
I really really love her but the main problem is that our culture is different and we only introduce the girl when we get married and before that its kinda weird and distrust among family I want to marry her have children with her but thats the main problem how i could convince her to accept it and i will always be faithful and loyal to you

I know its bad but still I can't do it how should i do please help

NO SARCASTIC WORDS PLEASE
we are both Adults
22 and 24
She told me that I will not change my culture if i change i will not be the same now If I do this I will not be the same also What sshould I do now
I loved her and love her
I told her that I will marry you she accept but wants to see my mom WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE
ITS NOT IN MY CULTURE TO BRING HER HOME
BRINING HER IS IMPOSSIBLE ONLY WE BRING OT INTRODUCE WHEN WE GET MARRIED NOT BEFORE THAT

 

[Music]

You're wanting to get married to someone of a different culture. This means you both will come across confusing problems like this from time to time just because you are different. That's okay, but you need to be able to talk things out together and make decisions about things like this together. Talk about it with her. Expect things to be complicated sometimes, and only go into this marriage if you're willing to deal with stuff like this quite regularly, especially at the beginning.
She has already agreed to marry you, right? So maybe you can take her to see your mom the day you get married.

 

[GYNUWYNE]

HI,
I googled Asian courtship to try to get an understanding of your customs. The below link describes how dating an Asian would customarily go between stages.
It contrdicts what you are saying. It says, that once the couple decides to make their relationship public, then the family is introduced. After some time wedding plans are put into action.

I think you should talk to your parents about your customs from the old days, to today and what is it exactly that your parents believe in and why.

explain to them that you have met a woman who feels it necessary to meet the parents now that you are engaged.

I'm thinking that there is some confussion as to the beliefs of what is customary. But in the end, if your parents do tell you they refuse to see her, then you have to explain to the fiance why, explain the ritual and why it's in place.

 

[Debbie]

That makes no sense at all. You only introduce a woman to your family AFTER you are married? So the family does not attend the wedding? That's ridiculous! One of the things you will need to learn how to do is compromise if you want to blend two cultures into a marriage. If it's important to her to meet your family then MAKE IT HAPPEN! Let it be weird. If you want this girl to be your wife someday, she is going to have to come before your family in some things.

 

[Tina S]

This is a case where you need to show the woman that you love that you are man enough to stand up and fight for her.
Ask yourself how you would feel if because of this situation with your parents you were to lose her forever.If you can't bear the thought of that,then sit your parents down and have a heart to heart talk with them.
If after doing that,they won't accept the fact that you are about to break with family tradition,then you have to make the adult choice of pleasing your parents or making choices for yourself based on your wants and needs as a grown man.