I want to introduce him to my mom...?

[nikkiix3.]

I'm 15 years old and a sophomore. I was never honest with my mom about my relationships and hid them, and lied to her just to see my ex boyfriend before when I went out. I feel bad, but I met somebody new. I really like him and we're not officially together yet, but he wants to meet my mom to ask for her permission to make me his girlfriend and to meet his parents. The only problem is that she went through my phone and found out that we were talking before I could tell her and she thinks we had sex, but we haven't. I don't want to lie to her anymore. I want to make things right but I also want to have him meet her because he's genuinely a good guy, and I want to be with him. I know I'm young, but I'm experiencing my first love and I want my mom's approval. My brother is introducing his girlfriend to my mom over winter break and I was wondering how I should approach her about this? She's uneasy when it comes to me and boys, but I really just want to make things right again. How can I ask her to give him a chance to prove her that we aren't having sex and are just in a steady relationship? He just turned 17 and is a junior, so how can we convince her that he isn't what she thought he was on the texts she read and that he's not there for sex? He really isn't. We're both catholic and we do stupid stuff, but we were raised to have the moral of no sex before marriage. I think that's her main reason why she might not want to talk to him. :/

 

[Turdly B]

Just introduce him.

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[Will]

Great question. First, I guess some people didn't read your question because you asked how you should introduce him, and they all said "introduce him".

Explain to your mom why what she read is the wrong perception. Explain to her you are sorry for lying to her and as her daughter, you would love to have an open and honest relationship with her. Explain that he is Catholic like you are, and both of you have no intent of sex before marriage (God Bless for that!)

Then, beg her to give you a chance. Tell her if she doesn't want you seeing him, you won't.

Hope this helps.

 

[Kasey]

introduce him.

 

[linda]

I would like too offer a mothers perspective on this. I can understand her doubts and it sounds like an honest talk with her is in order. reassure her you can understand how she feels..I think she should be glad that he wants to meet and ask for her permission to date you.Very few men today would even bother to ask. Pick a nonthreatening enviornment to introduce him to her.The holidays should offer an oppertunity for this Have him offer a christmas card . She will like that. Be patient .She will come around to your way of thinking. You seem like a very level headed young lady.If he is half the young man I think he is ,meeting him should put her fears to rest. Good luck and Happy Holidays/