I went to a massage parlor and feel guilty.?

[Jon Doe]

I recently went through a break up with my girlfriend in a relationship that lasted over a year. After a week, I went to a massage parlor and experienced a 'happy ending'. A week after that My girlfriend and I got back together. I feel I need to tell her. Do i need to tell her? We were not together when i went to the parlor but somehow i feel that i should tell her. What should I do? is that the right thing? am i obligated to tell her?

 

[? Sher ?]

The guilt is overwhelming, you let emotion and lust take control of you, and in a rush did something that can't be undone. You must tell her to get it off your chest, and be a real man.

The fact that it is on your conscious is a sign, in the end you must make the decision for yourself, but remember the weight events like this places on ones heart can be quite heavy. I wish you the very best.

 

[greenfairy]

You were technically single then and you really have no obligation to tell her. Would you want to know if she hooked up with a random guy when you were broken up? Probably not, so don't do it. You shouldn't feel guilty you didn't really do anything wrong.

If its really killing you then you need to come to grips with the fact that breaking up makes us do stupid things sometimes and you just have to live with the consequences.