I'm an effin newbie to this stuff! HELP!

[Emerald]

21 year old dude, just wanting to know how this whole thing works? I have a fairly busy career life, so getting a girlfriend and having time for her tends to be easier said then done.

I'm just wondering what to expect... is there a good site to figure this all out? rules? what to expect?
Do they ask everyone if they want extras?
or if they decide they dont want to then its just a massage. Like is it a roll of the dice if you get extras or not?
Also what do you guys look like? im not gay i just wanna make suer you guys arent like GQ models going in there and when i go in there they'll be like "holy crap who referred this guy?" haha.
Please let a newbie in on some tips and pointers. Im looking for a massage, and as many extras as i can get , money is no issue, and im definatly too shy to ask for it id think, WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!? lol

 

[secretly submissive]

First off you are on the best site for information already

I am not into the MP thing but I am sure if you read the board you can find most of your answers.

Pictures of cargo can be found here http://www.canadaadultfun.com/bb/viewtopic.php?t=3014&start=0

That is pretty much what we all look like but some of us are a bit better looking than that!

Seriously look around any bar or coffee shop and We could be there, we look just like average people

 

[Natalie]

awesome.... yeah so far from reading there are like LITTLE thing i dont get, like abbreviations and such things like that.
CBJ? i think one was NHJ? (nude handjob?)
then there are words like 'spinners'.

lol im completly in the dark when it comes to this. Also the main thing im wondering is if these places are just like a given for teh extra's , cause i think with my personality when it comes to more sexual things is definatly that of a shy person, then the slightly more out going personality i have towards other things.

 

[Buffy]

actually did soe brousing and i know all about the acronyms now haha... thx.
So many just the behavior... maybe some people could explain their first times... and maybe if the girls are around some stories would help too! What do you do to shy guys? lol

 

[mIsTy bEeBeE]

Shy? Me? "Heaven forbid!!!!!

Spinners? Best definition I know is...

 

[akluis]

haha well ya must of been shy not knowing what to expect your first time? do i just go in there and she drives everything or do i have to drive where we end up going to in a session .

 

[Gary D]

If your shy and worried about getting things rolling, maybe try a well reviewed escort, then you shouldn't have an issue with discussing the extras. Also generally, if you pick a well reviewed escort you will most likely have a better time than at a mp. Not to say there are not any good mp's in Calgary, but in general it is more rushed, higher price and poorer attitutes etc.

If your set on an mp, check out the reviews and pick someone who consistently gets good reviews. Go for a massage, she will most definately hint on extras and tell her you want the whole meal deal. She already knows the reason you are there so don't play coy and you should be alright. Have fun and relax.

 

[Shady Vines]

well maybe ill give it a try, check the boards for good reviews that sorta thing.
Whats the main differents between a mp and an escort? cause i want what the mp seems to do, a massage followed by some play time. With an escort is it proper manners to take her out somewhere? show her an excellent time before getting to business? not that i wouldnt want to do that , its just like i said, i have a very limited schedule.

Also maybe as people look at this any exact recemendations? like goto here ask for her, kind of thing..im reading the reviews and see a few girls im very interested in.. also do they sometimes hold back depending on age... like if i go for a 35 year old and me being only 21 is age play poorly on my part cause im young, like does she see me as not as serious of a customer? i know thats a tough question to ask cause it different per person, but just as a generalization maybe?

 

[Tmucho]

Jebus christ man, this isn't an interview into med school... lol You said you have some ladies you want to see. Book them, ask them for a massage and extras and bingo. Trust me, the world is your oyster, usually what you ask for you will receive. As long as you are clean and respectful, all is good.

In all seriousness, if you are having any doubts, any doubts at all, pass and don't look back. You sound very young, naive and inexperienced, just be sure you know what you are doing.

 

[Walter XI JPA]

haha well its not like im doubting my safety or anything... just wanna educate myself a bit before hopping into something... its something i do no matter what it is im getting myself into.

I am young and naive to this kinda thing though... so the only way to learn is to jump in blindly haha. im gonna see what i can do and ill write a review for ya guys when its all done from my own personal newbie point of view.