I share this frustration too. ย I do the whole talking thing about how they didn't get this way overnight and cannot expect results overnight, etc. ย I talk about some realistic goals and expectations. ย I also talk about the importance of incorporating other things into their routine to help things move forward faster. ย I suggest stretching and change of daily activities, etc. ย It works some of the time, but most of the clients who have had the problem for years do seem to expect instant results, even though I have told them they will NOT be getting long last instant results after 1 or 2 sessions. ย We all have those clients who only call us when they are in crisis of some sort and I'm always telling them that if they would just change a few things and come for massage regularly that they would cut down the likelihood of being in this horrible discomfort. ย But, we live in a fast food world and they seem to be in that mentality.I had a discussion with my old massage instructor about this when I ran into him. He said that I can only be responsible for what happens in my office for the hour. ย It is up to me to explain things as best I can, do good massage work and then it's up to the client to decide what they will do with that information. ย Of course, if they do decide to follow my advice, then it's $$$ in my pocket as well as the tremendous satisfaction that comes with helping someone. ย I have to learn to do the best I can and not feel responsible for the client's choices. ย Have you ever been to Weight Watchers and had the leader obsess over why you're not losing weight? ย Does your dentist lose sleep at night because he cleans your teeth every 6 months and you aren't flossing and brushing as diligently as you should? ย No, he doesn't. ย The hygienist doesn't either. ย Your teeth are cleaned, cavities filled advice given how to improve your routine for better health and then they don't think about it. ย If you come back 3 years later complaining of cavities, they just clean your teeth, fill the cavities, advise you of a good dental routine and don't think about you again. ย Bottom line is we can't be responsible for our client's choices. ย I have to learn not to take things personally when my clients don't choose to follow my advice. ย