I have a 3yr old cat who I have just recently moved to a friend's while I am in the process of moving in also. She likes it there so much that I leave her there during the week,see her only on the weekends.A friend had some kittens and nobody wanted one scruffy little runt.I imediately fell in love.Now how do I bring her home without my 3yr old getting jealous? and she will. What if my friend brings her in instead of me?