Introducing parents to older boyfriend?

[Jjfjf Jfjfjf]

My mom and dad are divorced. I think my mom will take it way better than my dad will. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is about to be 30. We've been dating for almost 7 months but my parents don't know about it. I want to tell them but I definatley don't want to break up with him. And btw, he's not using me or any of that. I'm worried about telling my dad because I'm daddys little girl and I'm worried he won't take it that way my mother will. Help?

 

[Okai]

Telling your parents in only one issue. Any 30-year-old guy who is dating an 18-year-old has problems, not to mention the fact that when he was dating you at 17 it was illegal. Be honest, you don't want to tell your father because you don't want to hear the truth about your situation. Date someone closer to your own age.

Your boyfriend sounds like a real winner. Why would a 30-year-old date a woman that he cannot take out for a glass of wine? Why would he date someone he'd be embarrassed to take to social events with his co-workers? Why would a grown man be afraid to meet your parents?

 

[founck]

" And btw, he's not using me or any of that."

......sure

 

[likindria]

The only thing you can do is hope for the best if its meant to be it will be if not find you a new boyfriend

 

[Javier D]

Well ure in a tough spot. i dont understand how people of very differenced age love each other the level of mentallity should be so different. u should tell me (not in a bad way j curious) ....but once u tell ur mom u she could give give u some advice on how to tell ur dad since she knows him well then u might have an idea. i dont think u should throw it at him like dat but slowly like say something one day something else another day etc. and give him hints like tell him how happy u r. all the nice things he does for u. wat he does for a living. where he comes frm so it wont b dat harsh once u tell him his age.