Is a massage or wax a sexual thing?

[Fran J]

I can't believe that a man would have his chest, back, thighs and maybe buttocks 'pampered' and it is not sexual. Likewise, a woman gets undressed, opens her legs, a 'beauty technician' - usually an unknown woman - then 'treats' her 'there'.

I can partly understand the massage because we all want to relax, but I don't know why a third party - a masseur - needs to be involved. Can't you just lie in the garden or go to the swimming baths? As for the waxing, that seems strictly sexual because it is completely unncessary. The only shaven women I have ever seen are on porno sites. Almost every woman you see in the street, in shops, on the bus, etc has a proper bush (as nature intended).

Maybe I am just old fashioned, but it all sounds bizarre.

 

[Bruce]

Massage is very sexual; waxing is not.

 

[L'amour propre]

You see women showing off their bush in the street, in shops, on the bus?

Interesting.

 

[Liz]

Hello again Fran, glad we sorted out the smear test question, you do seem to be very focused on the sexual parts of a female dont you.
How do you know that "Almost every woman you see in the street, in shops, on the bus, etc has a proper bush (as nature intended)." Have you managed to get them to take their knickers off to show you ?
For me I find a massage from my husband to be both stress busting and a turn on, but then he is rather gorgeous.......
Looking forward to your next question x

 

[Pearl]

So, you are au fait with the personal grooming practices of the general population? Thats quite a claim.

It may be your personal preference to see pubic hair poking out from under a bikini bottom and trailing down a woman's inner thighs (because it does you know, it doesnt grow in a neat little triangle restricted to the genital area), but its not everyones.

Do you shave your face? Thats not "necessary" either, you know. I shave instead of waxing, waxing seems pointless to me, you have to let it grow back to a certain length before you can wax again. Trust me, its not a sexual experience.

I also get massages, not as a treat, but because I keep tension in my neck and shoulder area. The massage is bloody painful.

 

[Joanna Patterson]

Pubic hair is natural, and I have never met a single man who didn;t like it. Yes, there is something odd about paying money to a beauty technician to see your vagina.

 

[LillyB]

You are the one with the dirty mind. How on earth can waxing be sexual? And if you have a massage the masseur is not the third party as there are only two of you there and its not possible to have a massage without a masseur. Old fashioned but not sufficiently so not to have been on porno sites or to imagine you know what women on the street look like - what a jerk!

 

[Babie Gal]

I must say you are old fashioned, if you cant wax why judge other people you seat there with your natural bush and others will open there legs and get a good wax. Hygienically i would go for that anytime. Cheers to the ones who can open there legs and get a good waxing.

 

[Barb Outhere]

To me shaved, waxed, trimmed or au natural, it is as personal a choice as hair style/length. No body's business but theirs.

 

[Guess who...]

It could be if you made it that way

 

[Floopy Doop]

Neither are sexual if done by a stranger...would you rather lick hair or bare skin? Maybe nobody has ever licked you, but fyi skin is more sensitive to the touch with less hair.. it's not bizarre it's common sense, people stay cleaner longer without hair trapping dirt and moisture...