is it okay if i let my husband to be cross massaged?

[confusion]

i have no idea what is involved in a cross massage. i am kinda feeling possessive and hesitant to let him have massaged by a female . he laughed it off when i expressed my concern . then i too told him to decide for himself , but i am feeling restess.

 

[Raven]

You are either a Troll ( search google if you do not understand the term ) or have some mental issues that you need to see a therapist about.

Being massaged by a woman is no different to being served a cup of coffee by a woman.

Seriously, I think you have deep trust issues of men if this is how you feel. If he was massaged by a man would you think he was gay ? You logic is absurd to say the least, that is why I think you may be in need of a therapist.

Have you thought that your husband may feel extremely uncomfortable being massaged by a man ?

His choice of which sex he feels comfortable with whilst being massaged,is his choice,not yours.

There are many reasons he may choose a female massage therapist.

1. He may have been abused by a male when he was younger and not told you.
2. He may think that being touched by a man whilst he is semi naked is being " gay "
3. He might just think, now hang on a second, this may be a fucking radical concept for you to take in, but may be he just thinks she is the best massage therapist he has ever had ?

For gods sake woman, if you care for your husband and if his massage makes him less stressed and more calm,loving and understanding then back off. Your possessiveness will end your marriage one day.

One last thing, if you have no evidence to suggest your husband has been unfaithful, then back off.

Please also see a therapist as I genuinely believe you have issues.

 

[kelly k]

i say troll.

 

[SMELS]

I'm confused? Are you saying that you don't want your husband to be massaged by a woman.?
If so, I think you need to grow up.! Massage therapists aren't whore's, therefore will not turn your husband on, they are also trained not to touch certain area's that do this.
What do you really think is going to happen? I hardly think the therapist will steal your husband!! God this is a joke, your very young minded.!!

 

[Pleifna]

OMG everyone cross massages?? Have you ever even been to a spa? it's always cross massaging.. and omg trust him the way that you trust urself not to cheat. =]