I do Equestrian five times a week and the other two days I do track and field hockey. I'm really busy and I have a lot of spasms in my back and I have neck pain and back pain often. My parents got divorced when I was two and I'm now 16 and my mom got re-married two years later. Anyways, my step-dad offered me a massage and he rubbed my neck and back because I was sore. A few days later, he rubbed my leg with lotion and sometimes when I'm on the couch he will walk up behind me and rub my back. Is this weird? I've known him for a long time and he is like a second dad to me. Do you find this really strange?