Is it wrong to offer my brother's wife a feet massage?

[Messenger007]

I live with my brother and his wife at the moment, and she was asking her husband for a foot massage and he wouldn't give her one. He doesn't like to do or get. She knows that I like to give foot massage, and I offered to give her one. She was saying afterward that she really liked it. Should I ask my brother if he's fine with it? Do you think my brother felt jealous? His wife and I do not have any history and I respect her.

 

[Elizabeth B]

You should not be massaging your brother's wife's feet that's way to intimate an act to be performing.

 

[Cody M]

Watch Pulp Fiction and then decide. See what happens to Tony Rockeharo.

 

[sunshine11]

You should just give it up and ask her to go to a massage therapist so you can both avoid problems, questions and possible confrontation. Don't bother asking your brother since he won't be able to answer the question honestly and openly without being put in the middle right or wrong.

 

[Wisen Smart]

Just play it safe and keep your hands to yourself. If she wants a foot massage and her husband refuses, she should make an appointment with a professional. Again, hands off.

 

[WILNA S]

oooooh brotha!!! dont do stuff like that! i would be totaly freaked out!

 

[Ryan I]

You don't need your brothers permission. Just do it, what harm can happen? Nothing...

 

[Alex G]

Jealousy is an ugly emotion, and if he loves and trusts you and his wife, he shouldn't feel it. There's no logical reason to. Hey, it's not like you were massaging her boobs or anything. You don't have to say anything unless he asks.

 

[Lust for Lola]

You should definitely ask your brother before giving her another one! And if he says no, and she asks you why you don't want to...you better not say because of your brother.

 

[Snarky]

As long as you both have clothes on, I do not see a problem.

 

[Tim]

keep your hands off her feet!

 

[Jenn]

You sound like a respectable dude and you probably have good intentions only. But sometimes even those can be misunderstood. Just bring up the foot massage you gave your bro's wife to your bro in a casual way, like "bla blabla... Oh yeah, your wife asked me for a foot massage again, how funny is that? I must be really good at that.." And check his reaction subtly. Don't make it a serious issue, just ask casually. If he shows any signs of irritation or jealousy, then please stop giving any more massages. Better safe than sorry. No point causing any trouble with a foot massage when all you had was good intentions