Is ok not to have your stomach massage .?

[Boston Irish sweet heart]

I always wonder why some massage therapist are so into talking you into having you stomach massage . I had 2 massages and I had a woman massage me both times because I don't really want a guy massaging me because I have wired thoughts about them I watch a few massage Videos on this guy named Ryan who talks about becoming a male massage therapist and how he can try to talk his clients into getting their stomach massaged. Im shore not all male massage therapist are like that i'm shore a lot really nice but it's the one like him that make me question them and I'm sorry if i hurt guy massage therapists feeling . Im getting to a point where I won't book with him or have male massage therapist or get a massage and other things. Is ok to not have that area done? Why do some places do it? Why do some massage therapist try to talk you into having it done you don't want to? Advice appreciated .
I find him and male massage therapist that are similar to him really gross.sorry if you find me crazy. I just don't feel conformable having my stomach massage or having the sheet remove and can you ask not to have the sheet remove . And Is ok to not go for appointment or have the massage stop if your not conformable

 

[Mugsy]

Abdominal massage is contraindicated if you've eaten within the last 15 minutes. If it does nothing for you or it makes you uncomfortable let your therapist know to avoid it, simple right?