Japanese girls work like this.

[Costin]

cnotation:

Oh Captain, my Captain, I will follow your advice!!!

Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it and will indeed take it as a lead for my further actions.

Greetings,

Concerned

 

[sdbolt07]

Well, if you are Chinese or any other Asian race you have a snowballs chance in hell really. For someone reason Japanese are haters of other Asian races. They think they are better than them.

But if you are non Asian I would recommend Metropolis.co.jp classifieds as a start. Japan Forum, google the exact URL, is also good for those language exchange type deals.

Bottom line is that Japanese girls can't be bought, well they could but that would be too damn expensive. Its best to be in a casual relationship with them. So if I were you I would make friends online first via one of those sites.

@Concerned,

Hey man, I've never been to Kobe but I would imagine its similar. Go to a English pub and ask around is my best advice. Don't use lack of familiarity as an excuse though.

The less you know the better generally.

 

[Ashley Anxiety.]

cnotation,

I really appreciate your reports and as written earlier, it made me optimistic on my own prospects (within reason ).

However, Tokyo isn´t really "my turf". I´ve been there just once and probability to come back there is pretty small.

However, Kobe is where I am again and again (in spaces of once every one or two years - wow, is that often!!!...).

But if you or somebody else can give me some similar tips, I would be very grateful!

Greetings,

Concerned

 

[mimi momo]

Thanks for the advice. I'm currently living in China, most dating websites are full of chinese / thai / filipinas, very few jap girls. Any suggestions? I wouldn't mind making a trip to Japan but I'd like to line up some stuff first.

 

[Methral]

@iratoirato, sorry forgot to answer your question

Shibuya, just hang out around the station or around Starbucks. Girls galore.

Roppongi, go here on the weekends in the evening. Lots of bars and girls and fun.

Harajuku, if you're into the Lolita's this place would be heaven.

Akihabara, not only does this place have a ton of girls but also electronics!

If you have are in Shinjuku, I'd stay around the station. Kabukicho (West Exit) is none for Japanese only but tons of girls on the other side of the street. Remember Shinjuku is OL heaven.

I also enjoy going to Yokohama. It was a long train ride, which I also enjoy.

If you are really adventurous you'd head up to Saitama, bars in Chichibu for example would love to have a foreigner visit. Of course you'd be out in the sticks.

 

[Brodo]

Regarding No Foreigners.

Maybe in some cases it's like you say, but a lot of times guys don't like to deal with foreign guys. For example some Clubs in Shibuya won't allow foreign guys not accompanied with a date.

Either way, I personally don't care and nobody else should either. Nobody even mentioned racism, lol you did.

 

[boomboom5483]

No, it is because many Japanese feel uncomfortable and they don't like the behavior of foreigners.

It is like in the western world, many clubs revuse the entry to Turks, Arabs and blacks.

They don't spend much money in the clubs as they are usually welfare recipents and many Western Europeans will not visit a club with Turks inside. It is not racism - just business.

 

[MOMIN]

NeonNeon First of all thanks for reading my post. I definitely stand by my guide and know for a fact that physical looks aren't what its about. (Although I am not too shabby looking). The guys that get the best looking girls in Japan are the dorky guys. I mentioned that before. These are the guys that wouldn't have a snowballs chance in hell of getting a girl back in their home country.

For some reason Japanese girls seem to love two things, Security, and Danger.

If you can't be dangerous, be secure. If a girl knows that you aren't going to cheat on them and they don't have to worry then they will like that. Again it is not about looks, its about personality.

So many good looking guys I know couldn't crack J girls. It's about being interesting. For example if you are in the military and a girl asks you what you do. If you say you are a pilot they might yawn, but if you say you are a killer then they get wet.

Quick guide to all the not so attractive guys. (Hell all guys are ugly to me)

Your best group are OL's interest in English which is about 90% of them. Go to places like the library or check online classifieds like the Metropolis for girls wanting an English exchange partner. Trust me, its always becomes more than that. And if you are on the train, just start speaking whatever Japanese you know (the worse the better) to some nice looking OL, why the hell not?

LOL, trust me hot girls love foreigners making a fool of themselves over them. Once you get her to use her English because your Japanese is so horrible, you are in.

What I really want to put out there is confidence. You don't have to be some GQ model, trust me. Just be bold, and don't let stuff like what Neon says discourage you.

It's not easy for so called "Good Looking" guys to do what I suggest. They are usually more shy then the rest of the guys.

So there are two routes.

A. Be a savage, then pillage.

B. Be a gentleman, and possibly end up married.

P.S. If you want to get laid, don't study Japanese or if you do don't be trying to use it unless you are going for the village girl which is a whole different story.

P.S.S. No foreigners allowed. There are places like this. Why because foreigners can snatch up girl easily because their aren't any cultural inhibitions. So basically those guys are just building a safe haven. Don't let that discourage you as its a sign of weakness IMO.

 

[guachimansito]

NeonNeon,

the way you say it now, I agree with you, but to be frank, this is what I would say is normal and need not be discussed. Anybody who takes the description of cnotation as a guarantee for 100% success, is, to say it in a friendly way, naïve.

Best regards,

Concerned

 

[beautifultoes]

Good points, Concerned. What I meant to emphasize, however, is that cnotation's essay is far too optimistic. This makes regular people think that once they're in Japan, they'll be juggling a few chicks at the same time. Which is not gonna be the case for the great majority. And there are standards of "good looks", after all. There are certain features, like: animal magnetism, symmetry, athletic body, and many others. Also financial status. Obviously, even if you don't possess the above, you should keep trying. It's just that: don't expect the kind of results mentioned by cnotation. Or you're setting yourself up for a painful disappointment. Put in some hard work and persistence; and you'll hopefully score from time to time.

 

[Jim W]

NeonNeon,

I think, you may be right to a certain extend, but only so far.

1.) What is "good looking" and what not, is still not a norm, but subject to individual tastes on both sides of the fence - men and women alike.
This means that chances for an encounter may always be there.

And that leads me to

2.) where I believe, that cnotations message should be understood as a prompting to us other men to be prepared and to play on our chances, however remote they may be.
If you don´t take your chances, you are guaranteed only one thing: You definitely will NOT win!

Greetings,

Concerned

 

[Pompal 09.]

cnotation,

You may have good intentions, but unfortunately your advice does not apply most of the time. The fact is that if you are a very good looking guy, with some cash on you or can create illusion of having it, then you can bang many hot women almost everywhere in the world.

For average or below average looking guys, this is not the case at all. If you fall in this category, you go unnoticed most of the time regardless of your attitude, confidence, boldness, etc. In short, if you are not a hot guy, you can act like one, confident, bold, etc.... But you are not getting anywhere.

cnotation, you can rationalize why these women liked you. They did not dig you because you demonstrated your willingness to fuck them or any other funny thing. They did it, because they found you attractive physically.

I just wanted to warn guys, who think that they can become successful with women, like supermodels or actors, just by doing exactly the same. It will not generally work for you, I am afraid. Remember, 90% of cases:

looks, looks, looks AND/OR
money, money, money

As simple as that. I wish I were wrong actually.

One more thing. Think of all the guys who post online about Japan. The not so good looking ones use expensive brothels. Some spent there ages getting no action whatsoever and now they are bitter about Japan. I personally loved Japan for its culture and had two Japanese girlfriends, one long term.

 

[Kimberly]

does anybody know where I can find a girl in Tokyo? No foreigners allowed is driving me crazy!!!

 

[misha]

cnotation,

thanks for your input, buddy, that made my day!!!!!!!!

Next time Japan will be scheduled accordingly!!!!!!!!!!!

Long live the Shinkhansen and the OLs!!!!!!!!!!!

Greetings,

Concerned

 

[Gamer12]

Your welcome Engineer, glad I could help.

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Concern, you really had a good chance with the OL you met on the Shinkansen. This brings up another point that I forgot to mention in my original post. Japanese girls across the board, (with the exception of Academics), don't really like shy guys. You have a split second to make an impression with a girl on the local train usually.

* When you first make that eye contact you must, I repeat, you must fucking smile. *

If not she is just going to quickly look away and you could pretty much forget about her. That is first base and you obviously were there as far as I'm concerned.

So what should you have done next?

As I mentioned before speak whatever Japanese you know (konnichiwa, mitsubishi, toyota, bonzai, kamikaze, etc, etc). It would have sounded ridiculous to her and motivated her to want to study English in order to properly communicate with you. That is if you secured her phone number of course. That is why having a cellphone is so important.

* Get a prepaid cellphone for heaven sakes if you are trying to hook up with some girls people. *

You mentioned your coworker/partner and his wife right? This basically goes in the who cares category, the same box you put the Japanese guys in. Look, your partner probably knows you aren't gay and if anything he'd probably envy the possibilities being single offer.

Another thing, about 50ish, that doesn't mean much at all. You can get 30 something OL's all day which are pretty damn hot. And if you are straight up perverted without any shame whatsoever (like myself) then you can get girls as young as 18 too.

Don't forget to tie them up.

Happy hunting.

 

[Dragonfly Girl]

cnotation,

thanks for your report - interesting, to say the least!

However, I wonder about one thing:

Does, what you wrote, apply only to the best-looking young guys or do you also apply a chance for medium-aged (50) guys who are still looking half good (not too fat, but not anymore superman)?

I remember one encounter in one of the bullet-trains some years back where I was sitting beside one gorgeous looking lady who obviously was an OL and I would have liked to lock up with her anytime. She spoke no English, I no Japanese but what the hell, smiles all the way.

Only problem was, I wasn´t alone, my business-partner with his wife was sitting behind me and we had to get out in Kobe station.

Man, you have started dreams in my semen-clogged brain

Greetings,

Concerned

 

[MikeE]

Excellent post! I may be visiting Japan for the first time in the next couple of months and this is exactly the information I am looking for.

Thanks!

 

[Little Princess]

Hey I thought I would put in my two cents about Japanese girls in general. I promised I would a while back but I forgot about it.

Since they aren't a multiracial society (everyone is Asian) there is more of a need for them to be associated with a group.

Let me list a few and what type of people they go for

Punk - These girls are into rock and almost exclusively go for Japanese or what guys that are into the same scene. The problem is that they look like rejected from the 80s. These girls typically aren't the sexiest but very friendly and one of the first groups I hung out with before I knew any better.

Lolita - This girls like to dress like the Victorian era in France. You can find them in Harajuku or Akihabara and they go for (Japanese, White) They are probably the lowest on the sexiness factor to me.

Gothic - You can find them in Shibuya, Roppongi and they dress pretty frightening. Again if you are into dressing Gothic then you have a great chance of hooking up with them. I have never seen a black person dress that way hence the lack of interest in both parties. White people can get at these girls but usually they are with Gothic Japanese guys.

HipHop - Hip hop girls are the hottest dressing and usually finest. They are split into two groups. One group is the J-Hiphop which is found in every major station in Japan and the other is the Black Hiphop which is found in Shibuya, Roppongi, Yokohama, Naha, Chatan, Misawa. For a black person these girls are extremely easy and I've had girls fighting over me (literally) The other thread was right, you have to dress flashy and thats about it. It helps to have a car which you can rent for 80 bucks a day and a love hotel room. Again this is for people upto 30 and correct.

Reggae - This crowd tends to go for older black guys and Africans and like the whole weed seen. They will perm there hair so that they can have dread locks and all kinds of African stuff like that. They can be found in Roppongi, Shibuya and usually have African boyfriends.

Academics - Academics are the nerdy girls and they almost exclusively go for white guys. This is a good group of hot girls so if I were white I would definitely try to tap this region. The goofier you are the more of a chance you have of boning these girls.

Gal - Gals are the girls with the tan looking like they just came from the beach. They usually wear expensive brands and bags like Louis Vuitton and travel in packs of 2 or 3. You can also find them coupled up with their boyfriend who is usually a Japanese guy with a tan and Gucci this or Louis that. These girls can be found all throughout Japan and usually have Japanese boyfriend but can jump over to hiphop or hook up with white guys if they get bored or persuaded. My wife fits this type of girl actually and things worked out.

Yakuza girls- They can also be found in WEST Shinjuku outside of Pachinko parlors and local bars that usually only have 100 per cent Japanese customers. These girls are basically attracted to the real Japanese gangsters and typically have dragon tatoos on their tits and super sexy. I would say that White guys have an ok chance but mainly for Japanese.

OL - The largest group of girls are the Office Ladies. These girls are everywhere and are dressed in suits coming and going from work. I love this group and have had some of the best action in my life with them. I am talking about innocent looking girls wanting me to tie them up and eat them out and bang the hell out of them. I'm talking about giving facials to elementary school teachers outside in public. I am talking about coming home from the club drunk and grabbing one and fucking her based on eye contact. I am talking about every single night of my life feeling one up on the train on my way home. (Hey when in Rome..) OL girls are for straight up go getters. If you are bold and not shy you can have a field day with this submissive, freaking group of women who I quite frankly miss and love! Remember its about being bad with them but if you can't do that then take them out to the movies and that automatically makes you guys boyfriend and girlfriend in Japanese culture.

Housewifes - These girls want to be fucked, plan and simple. I never messed with them though.. no need. But if that is your thing then there are plenty of lonely house wives in Japanese.

Older OL - These women are single and desperate, mid to late 30s and are looking to settle down but can't seem to find the right guy. These girls will consider any foreigner usually before it gets too late.

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As in many places the local girls get all the attention but you could be missing out of some of the best girls from other countries. Here is another group that shouldn't be over looked.

Gaijins (Foreigners)- (Dont forget about all the foreign girls) I was juggling a European girl from Denmark (who really needed to shave), a razor thin Taiwanese girl (best pussy I ever had), while banging some communist hiphop Japanese girl (nice booty) everyday for a month. Remember that girls are girls and everyone focuses on just Japanese girls but other Asian girls are there in force including Korean, Chinese, Taiwanese, and Vietnamese. And European and American girls are there as well usually as English teachers and sometimes just university students. If you want some of the foreigner girl action then stay at a large gaijin house in Tokyo like Yoyogi. These are dormitories for foreigners and I was banging half of the girls in my house before I got an apartment and moved onto OLs.

Remember, you have to be "new" and "bold" and sometimes flat out "savage" to exploit Japanese girls. I could go on and on but I won't but I'll give anyone considering going a brief action plan.

Stay in a Gaijin Home in Yoyogi.
Flirt with ever hot girl there (respectfully, if possible)
If you cant speak Japanese great..
Try speaking broken Japanese to every hot girl you see and make sure to have a cellphone number
Don't be shy with them, act like you can't help but want to fuck them because of their superior beauty (girls go for that lol)
Don't give a fuck about Japanese guys ( It makes you look more dangerous and sexy to them)
By all means buy some alcohol if you need it. (Black Nikka mixed with a quarter of Green tea to look Zen like)
Goto the locations of the group of girls you want to go after.
The less you know the more you'll attract help, the better you are off at interacting with the girls.
Remember when you do, act over come by their beauty.
If you can't bang them then, get their number.


One last note, Japanese girls love to learn English so if their English is better than your Japanese they are having a great time just learning and using their English which they studied so hard to learn. Why not use it while having sexy is what a lot of them think.

Have fun.