Sampson wrote:
In the zona Adelitas bar is one of the few bars where some of the girls will actually approach you ask you if you want to go upstairs to the room with them or buy them a drink. And it's usually not the better looking girls either,so it's usually a good idea to avoid them. Many first time mongers make the mistake of going upstairs with the first girl that asked them. It's rare the HOT chica will ask you anything, somethings they will only give you an inviting smile. So the chances are if a girl approaches you she isn't one of the better looking ones in the bar, or she is getting older, and must use other skills rather than looks to get business.
It's sad but there are guys out there that are even too shy to approach a HOOKER and ask them to go upstairs with them! A few girls in Chicago club will approach you too, Girls in Hong Kong might ask you to give them a dollar for just looking at them.( very weird) The other bars you'll have to approach the girls or the correct procedure is ask the waiter to bring her over to you.
If you don't like girls approaching you with the hard sell stay away from Revolution street, especially South Revo the high-end clubs.....because some of these girls will treat you like 'flies on shit.' they are on you so fast, asking them to buy you a drink, or they sit on your lap and give you a sample lap dance, and want you to pay them to continue; I try to stay away from this away.
Techniques I use to keep the chicas away. Number one is I don't have any money, or I already went upstairs with somebody else and can't anymore. This usually works, but if they persist I tell them I'm gay or I ask them for things I don't think they will do. Asking them OK but I want sin-condom sex, or anal sex, and that usually sends them packing, and if they say yes I just might take them upstairs?
I told chicas I'm married but never I'm married and respect my wife. I guess that could work, but you know many will say, ' yeah then why are you here?' or you might even get them even more interested in them as the 'devil' in the girls would love to temp you and make you cheat on your wife that you love so much. It's the same thing as when you tell the girls your gay, you sometimes just make them more interested in you as lots of women just love a man wearing a wedding band