Luckydog, easy there buddy.........don't be so discouraged. You have been a lurker and for the first time on December 20, 2016 you finally registered and joined and have contributed. Its not really saying you made a very big mistake. You are just still learning the ropes. At least you did contribute, and now you have learned that some things works, some don't in this board. Learn from this and move on to the next place and try another massage lady out. I guess maybe tone down the type of questions just slightly and not be as explicit is what the consensus is here. Sometimes, look at when the poster's date when they joined and look at the contributions they made, and the likes and even look at the posts they made to see if it helps or is it just something that can be kicked to the curb. You can judge from these stats who to take suggestions from or who to ignore.
You are here since December 20. Stay awhile and learn the ropes.
My point is: exercise just a tiny bit more discretion, maybe not be as explicit as in your survey and stick to "story" or reviews instead as most of us here prefer that. Surveys not really in the best interest of the majority.
Please continue to have fun, report back here constructively. Peace!