Let's be civil

[Marshallimew]

I have lurked around here a long time. I have read reviews that were helpful and others that seemed just like ranting.

I used to post on other boards when I was younger and lived elsewhere. I never asked a massage therapist if they wanted reviews. I just wrote them, good ones, and not so good. But I learned that even the good ones can upset a therapist if there are too many details they don't want known. I now believe asking if they want a review is the courteous thing to do.

In the most recent example, it's good to see that some guys here have deleted postings at the request of Kelly. Like I commented on another posting, I have seen her and she is for me a very good RMT, and also a nice person and in my opinion doesn't deserve the negative comments she is getting about herself.

Let's be civil, whether writing a good or not so good review.

 

[ChaosFactor]

We don't know for sure it is Kelly. One time, Kali stated on the forum she didn't want reviews...and I agreed we should respect her wishes. But this person could be anyone.

But why would you believe that person was Kali but this is not Kelly?
In the past people have assumed Amy and Sunny were on the board for different reasons. I think the only provider we can say for certain was on here was Roxy and that conversation deteriorated really fast and got quite ugly.

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

Good question Chaos. It's because some regulars stated Kali didn't want reviews...and reviews kept coming. Then she popped up asking not to be reviewed and her wishes were not being respected. I never got a massage from her...so I can't be honestly sure. That being said...the reviews were mostly positive...and I still won't go...I should be able to write reviews and not be attacked like you and others have been.

 

[donny69]

I think we should error on the side of caution to respect the life's of the therapist. Remember they have friend and families that they may not want to know the intimate details of their service offering. We respect them, we will continue get the services.