Massage and Dash

[Qster]

Was at a shop there was a bit of a stir. Apparently, a few minutes before my arrival, a gentleman had gotten a massage + bodyslide then just got dress and walked straight out the door. The ladies were yelling at him but he never looked back, just dashed out the door. I was told that it happens at least twice a month to EACH lady, always gentlemen of the same race and colour. I asked why would they keep seeing these gentlemen and was told that they are not all bad, just most of them. Now I understand why certain ads exclude certain groups of clients; per the ladies, one group is generally not bad but can be very forceful which the ladies don't like and the other group is prone to massage&dash.

Just sharing in case you think that the ladies have it easy.

BTW, I am 100% sure those assholes are reading these reviews too, yes, if you do massage and dash, YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE and you are giving your entire race a bad name.

 

[Mebad23]

A lady I used to see was assaulted and stealthed. The client kept pulling the condom off. Finally she stopped and told him to leave. He beat her broke her nose and raped her raw. It was a person who's culture are known for their lack of respect for women. It goes without speaking that no one has the right to take what is not being offered. Like Qster said these women see all kinds of fktards.

 

[m694ever]

Racial intolerance is becoming more common in Canada and it’s understandable why sometimes. Ive been the next client just after an A-hole had left. Spent my session talking instead of any action. It was a well known and liked lady at a semi-legit, and the guy made her step outside of her comfort zone. It was assault for sure but these f-tards take advantage of them.

 

[c1000]

Was at a shop there was a bit of a stir. Apparently, a few minutes before my arrival, a gentleman had gotten a massage + bodyslide then just got dress and walked straight out the door. The ladies were yelling at him but he never looked back, just dashed out the door. I was told that it happens at least twice a month to EACH lady, always gentlemen of the same race and color. I asked whey would they keep seeing these gentlemen and was told that they are not all bad, just most of them. Now I understand why certain ads exclude certain groups of clients; per the ladies, one group is generally not bad but can be very forceful which the ladies don't like and the other group is prone to massage&dash.

Just sharing in cased you think that the ladies have it easy.

BTW, I am 100% sure those assholes are reading these reviews too, yes, if you do massage and dash, YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE and you are giving your entire race a bad name.

Why don't they take payment first?

It's always purse first, ass last.

 

[c1000]

It was a person who's culture are known for their lack of respect for women.

That doesn't really narrow anything down.

 

[Mebad23]

He was also non Caucasian. Which Can include a lot of people including myself. When it comes to people in general there are those of all ethnic diversity that will try to take what is not theirs to take. I understand why the massage providers and studios set boundaries. There will still be those that will try to impose their own will on women. Loogies aren't just green.

 

[JackPhilip]

Was at a shop there was a bit of a stir. Apparently, a few minutes before my arrival, a gentleman had gotten a massage + bodyslide then just got dress and walked straight out the door. The ladies were yelling at him but he never looked back, just dashed out the door. I was told that it happens at least twice a month to EACH lady, always gentlemen of the same race and color. I asked whey would they keep seeing these gentlemen and was told that they are not all bad, just most of them. Now I understand why certain ads exclude certain groups of clients; per the ladies, one group is generally not bad but can be very forceful which the ladies don't like and the other group is prone to massage&dash.

Just sharing in cased you think that the ladies have it easy.

BTW, I am 100% sure those assholes are reading these reviews too, yes, if you do massage and dash, YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE and you are giving your entire race a bad name.

That's really unfortunate to hear. It's never right to take advantage of anyone, especially when they're providing a service. I agree, people who do this are disrespectful and give a bad reputation to others. Thanks for shedding light on this.

 

[Footlong]

Why don't they take payment first?

It's always purse first, ass last.

I would agree that payment should be made in advance of the services

 

[Spexx]

I would agree that payment should be made in advance of the services

Ive never once been to a semi-legit and been asked to pay first. Nor would I.
Now a Parlour or incall where services are discussed at the start of the session, yes, there is an expectation of pay before play. But at a semi-legit I’d likely leave if asked to pay first.
But I guess if the fucktards continue to screw the ladies over, I could see that becoming a thing.


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[Mebad23]

Since it's inception here ,the subspecies known as fuktard has been making it's presence more prevalent. Unlike Bigfoot he seems to not be as elusive and less cautious by far, less intelligent.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

Most spas have cameras at the entrance, time for them to start posting "fuctard photos" so other therapists and good clients are not impacted.

 

[c1000]

I would agree that payment should be made in advance of the services

At the very least if they have an issue with a certain demographic, then they can enforce the rule when they feel necessary.

In these businesses, there are not many options to protect oneself so you must do what's in your best interest.

It doesn't have to be confrontational, just a warm explanation on the policy.

 

[brownguy1234]

Why don't they take payment first?

It's always purse first, ass last.

Interlude Spa always takes payment upfront . I can understand based on their location .

 

[quesoblanconorte]

Ive never once been to a semi-legit and been asked to pay first. Nor would I.
Now a Parlour or incall where services are discussed at the start of the session, yes, there is an expectation of pay before play. But at a semi-legit I’d likely leave if asked to pay first.
But I guess if the fucktards continue to screw the ladies over, I could see that becoming a thing.


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I’ve been asked a couple of times. Once because it was pretty close their closing time. The other time was because the therapist thought that I had not been to that place previously. Once I let her know that I’d previously seen her colleague, she was less concerned about it - although that may have also had something to do with the fact that I didn’t have a negative response to her request.

I’ve found that demonstrating that you’re not someone who is demanding and pushy - and who gives a shit about them (like you should for any human) goes a long way at making people comfortable.

 

[Qster]

I notice that certain Toronto massage places have adopted you pay the base fee first before you enter the room, then you tip whatever afterwards inside the room. I think the Edmonton places should adopt such policies, at least the base fee is covered.

 

[welldunn66]

Why don't they take payment first?

It's always purse first, ass last.

A lot of us here really reject that idea when going to a legit/semi legit place of payment first. Because our mentality was accustomed to service first, pay later. For the most part works really well where all parties are honest. The few bad apples and certain ethnic groups ruined the service provider and hence their ads says no certain clientele. It's not discrimination, it's because the historical data shows that massage and dash is common for this group.

To the massage and dash a$$holes, F#u& Y&O!

 

[welldunn66]

I notice that certain Toronto massage places have adopted you pay the base fee first before you enter the room, then you tip whatever afterwards inside the room. I think the Edmonton places should adopt such policies, at least the base fee is covered.

I see this in Edmonton for the AMPs and MPs.
I also had this done at Interlude and Diamond.

 

[Rubmegood]

With security cameras everywhere you'd think they would go "old school". I remember when (oh, NO! I'm THAT old! ) Shops that had customers write bad cheques had a "wall of shame" where they photocopied and enlarged the cheque (with the customers name on it) and posted it on the wall for all to see- and for cashiers to watch out for. Seems to me shops could share vid caps of bad guys and compile a 'blacklist' or a "Most Unwanted" photo file to stop these Blackguards! (look that one up on your google, you young whippersnappers!)

 

[Hatake]

It's always disappointing to hear these assholes ruining a good thing for the rest of us. I'm honestly just appalled at how some people are so comfortable pulling shit like this. It's not worth ruining your life over.

I hate it when provider's assume we're all dangerous and consider us potential occupational hazards, but I can't blame them for doing so considering how dangerous some clients are.

These kind of people should be castrated and publicly shamed.

 

[Qster]

With security cameras everywhere you'd think they would go "old school". I remember when (oh, NO! I'm THAT old! ) Shops that had customers write bad cheques had a "wall of shame" where they photocopied and enlarged the cheque (with the customers name on it) and posted it on the wall for all to see- and for cashiers to watch out for. Seems to me shops could share vid caps of bad guys and compile a 'blacklist' or a "Most Unwanted" photo file to stop these Blackguards! (look that one up on your google, you young whippersnappers!)

I see a lot of "black" references in RMG's post; thought I need to clarify, the massage&dashers are NOT the blacks. I am going to come out and become that racially insensitive jerk who named colours.

According to the providers, most of the blacks are good customers, but a few of them can be forceful with women which can get out of hand if not managed properly. Anything like grabbing of shoulder, neck, head or clothing needs to be handled right away. Usually mean just the basic for them; not worth taking a chance with anything more.

It is the browns who do the massage&dash. Always the browns. They haggle over rates vigorously or they dash. It has gotten so bad in the city that it is like 50/50 whether they dash.

Yes, I said it, I am that insensitive privilege tax-paying white trash who Trudeau hates...

Believe it or not, according to my regular at that shop. they actually like the yellows the best. They are the most passive, never negotiates, easiest to please.