Massage from Married Man?

[Kate Hermada]

Ok, so i have a sitaution where i think one of my co workers (married) is flirting with me. I don't have any intentions of doing anything with him because i respect the wife, but since i do work with him i just want to know if he is interested in me. He asked for a massage after i was done with work and i told him that i had to go home, he sounded disappointed, but understood. He always flirts with me at work, but when he asked for a massage i didnt think he was serious, but he was. I am younger than he is, and i do find him very attractive but nothing more. He is very nice and i would never think of him as rude or nasty. I just want to know what do you think his intentions were? Does he really want just a innocent massage? Why couldnt he just wait till he got home to his wife?

 

[jnjmommy]

It's pretty clear what this man wants...if you respect his wife as much as you claim then I wouldn't even talk to him unless you HAVE to. (working with doesn't mean anything..when I had a job if I had to I would find ways to avoid a guy like the plague or I would barely talk to them and they would start backing off)

 

[Flouride]

he's a cheating dog that wants into your pants and you know it. quit flirting with him and giving him encouragement. if he's going to cheat on his wife let him do it with someone else. don't you be a part of it.

 

[Sweet RN]

Come on you know the answer, he's married. He just wants you for sex

 

[CindyLu]

You know why and you know what to do. Stay away from this married man because he is married. He should be getting his free massages from his wife not you. You know he is flirting and that it is not innocent on his part. He would like to have you as a side dish to the main course which is his wife. Do not let anything get started here because it is you that will get hurt. Tell him to talk it over with his wife when ever he makes his flrity comments. Stop flirting back. Cut the smiles and the giggles over his flriting and do not flirt with him no matter what you intend. Moths that fly near the fire get burned.

 

[BabeHart]

We can't read his mind but his behavior sounds inappropriate...would you want your partner doing those things or acting that way toward a co-worker??? Maybe it's innocent and maybe it is not, but you should definitely not encourage it...in fact, discourage it...anyone who would step out on their partner wouldn't be worth messing with anyway...

 

[Yummy Mummy]

Oh yes, nice married men look for innocent massages from their co-workers ALL the time.

 

[browneyes1]

you know the answer you know his intentions tell him to get lost his wife is waiting why are you so bothered if he is interested if you have no intentions yourself. hes married therefore off limits. simple as that.

 

[Amanda]

Your last sentence answers your question: why couldn't he?

The answer is clear: he rather YOU be the one touching him. In my opinion, it sounds like he's interested in something more than delightful conversation. You need to keep your distance.

 

[aryxelectronics]

That request could be considered sexual harrasment. Remind him of that.