Massages and flirting?

[Kate Lewis]

So there is this guy that i work with who asked for a massage, and i am also kind of attracted to him. When he asked for the massage i didn't think he was serious, but now he really wants the massage which i wouldnt mind giving him. The first time he asked, i couldnt do it because i had to take care of something, and i told him i would do it next time, but he sounded disappointed. But do you think there is an attraction there for him as well, or does he just want a massage? Do you think it might lead to something else?
He is a very nice guy and i dont think that he was being cheeky though, he is just very comfortable with me as I am with him. He even called when i left to see when i could give him one.

 

[Gail]

Well, assuming you work somewhere where giving massages isn't something that happens everyday, I'd say he fancies you, and yes, it could lead to other stuff! In general, men would only be asking for intimate attention like that from a woman because he finds her attractive. He sounds a bit cheeky though to me, so be careful..

 

[Jane Mcgow]

Yes he probably is attracted to you too. The massage will probably lead to more.

 

[johnny j]

i would say it's just flirting, unfortunately everyone is different. Those " Tell Tell" signs people speak of don't indicate anything. some guys are just ego flirts, they flirt to boost their self esteem, and others really could have true feelings for you, but just not know how to convey a proper message. I would really give ht more time, but for now just give him the message, who knows it could lead to something...

 

[lesscaffeine]

nice ;-)

He's probably hoping it leads to something else. If you feel like living dangerously, spread a big soft towel over your bed some night, warm some kama sutra almond essence massage oil in hot water, light a candle or two (unscented votives), and have him come over. Have him pack a pair of shorts, his body wash, and a towel.

 

[Prozac]

I think it's obvious. He likes you. No guy would ask for a massage to a girl he doesn't like unless he's a bitch-seeker. And I don't think this guy is.

 

[pinkandprettyp]

well massages can be related to something sexual so he just wants u to feel him up pretty much...but be careful because u don't know wat kindof guy he really is!

 

[Je m'appelle Sophie]

I thinlk he likes youu! Guys wouldnt ask a girl they dont find attractive for a massage. most likely.i mean, youre going to be massaging his back, when you two are alone.
He likes you.
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