Meeting "outside the bar"

[GMJ]

Actually I used to beat them out the door all the time. I'm not kidding. I have no idea how I used to do it. I guess I've lost a step .

 

[masterj00769]

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That strategy works okay, and you can save a lot of money, but it depends on how each guy can arise to the occasion when it times to take her to bed. I tend to find the fuglies in La Gloria. Looked around in there a few times and never saw anything I was interested in.

Not that meeting outside the bar "on a date" is necessarily going to give you a good experience. It didn't work too well for me when I took her to the Plaza Rio ~ noon time, and she was really distant, non-talkative, no smiles, and generally non-cooperative. I had to decide to end it earlier than I expected and take her back to her hotel. Here's another shocker: she didn't even want to have sex, which we had already negotiated I would pay her for. She just wanted to go to sleep. These girls have late hours.

 

[Nibej]

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Another suggestion is to lower your standards. If you can't get a hot girl in the states, your odds of getting one in Mexico will probaly be the same. I for example am a proud bottom feeder. I go to the smaller places (mermaids, playboy) and hook up with the older, fat fugglies around 1 in the morning. I have a good time with them and always get cell numbers. I don't kid myself in thinking that the 8,9 and 10's that are in HK, LC, and Adelitas are interested in me outside the 30 minutes I pay for them. The reality is they're not! So I set my standards realistically and go where I can have fun and get the best bang for my buck.

 

[Pompal 09.]

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Touche. I've never done TLNs, but $300 for TLN I'm guessing is enough for average (6-7), more experienced (a few years) putas who may rarely go up anyway and I'm thinking it be even be

 

[I love him <3]

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Easy answer! Monger outside of TJ. I personally found my niche in El Salvador where the girls are looking for part time boyfriends who will send them cash from time-to-time. But in TJ, we're dealing with a completely different breed. These girls AREN'T hungry. They see us lonely, pathetic, American men every day. We are not special to them. For them it's a numbers game. In TJ I offered as much as $300 for TLN and got several "no's" WTF. In many 3rd world Latin American countries, 300usd will get you a girl who after 24 hours you can't get rid of.

TJ is good for getting drunk and sticking your throbbing hard-on in a real pussy and giving your hand and lotion a break. Thats it!

 

[Sincity Lin]

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You hit the nail on the head with the word "abused" Amigomio. This is never more true particularly when you are fucking a Paradita or better yet she's fucking/abusing you in CG position. The Paradita rides/punishes you in an attempt to make you pop and you are laying there taking it. Once in a while she stops to check if you popped already and when she finds out you haven't popped she rides/punishes you harder this time. Ofcourse you can never praise her about her "skills" when you know she has a hidden agenda.

But after having this feeling of being "used" I look at the glass half full. I look at the bright sides. She made me pop. She rode me hard. She needs the money. And at least my johnson went inside her kitty which is the most important one.

 

[GetSkinnyDiet.com]

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Darshman, Goodquestions... you guys are using "used" and it's the wrong word.
You should think "abused".

There is a term to describe the "hangover" you experience, a little hard on someone that likes ho's, but by the way you are describing your experiences with them and how you feel afterwards you should consider what the shrinks call "vaginal masturbation".

That's what you guys felt and experienced considering your reactions.

You are also thinking, and am sure you Americans have a similar saying: "It would have cost me nothing, felt better and finish better is I had rolled the money on my dick and jacked/off".

Am sure every single one of us has thought of that more than once...




Originally Posted by goodquestions11
To me is a little bit funny how I sometimes feel used after a session with a Paradita instead of the other way around. Sometimes I'm talking with the girl after the session all the while she's putting on her clothes and I haven't even started. Pretty soon she's out the door and heading into the streets.
But is refreshing to feel like you are actually having sex with another human being. Something that sometimes doesn't even happen even when you are fucking a civillian. Come to think of it some Paraditas give you a "married experience" or having a "girlfriend for too long experience" where you feel like you are having sex with a robot or a dead fish. That just doesn't cut it with me but since a Paradita is not my wife/girlfriend I could get lucky and have another memorable experience.

 

[kaz716]

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With SG's they are going to leave as soon as you cum. What I recommend is just to take one pant leg down....fuck her hard, cum quick, then pull up your pant leg, slap her on the ass, say thank you, and beat her out the door.

 

[Empress of Trolls]

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I agree that there is nothing worse than to have a chica complain the whole time. I once was in the Philippines and picked up a SW from her pimp. The pimp told me that if there were any issues, to bring her back and he'd swap her out at no extra charge. That should have been my tip off to choose another, but she was young and very hot...so I went for it. When we got in the car she was silent as a lamb and had a scowl on her face. I tried to be friendly and chat on the way to the hotel, but it was a no go. I thought maybe she was shy. I offered to stop and pick her up something to eat and drink on the way back...she wanted nothing. In the room the attitude got even worse and then the complaining started before the door even closed on our room. She didn't like Americans. Americans were too big. She liked Japanese men because they had little tiny dicks and it didn't hurt. I explained that I had some lube and would take it very easy with her, but she just asked me to hurry up and get it over with...fine. I finally told her to leave because she ruined the mood and my desire. She was delighted and started for the door....but then I flashed angry, but was calm and told her that I had changed my mind. I suggested that we go back to the pimp for an exchange. She didn't want to do that because she said she wouldn't get anymore work from him. So I grudge fuck the shit out of the bitch and sent her away without a tip. I figured that I might as well give her a real reason to not like Americans! Now, I'm not usually mean spirited like that, but she absolutely ruined my evening and it just hit me wrong. Anyway, you take the bad with the good in this hobby and learn the warning signs upfront as you go along.

 

[link]

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That is funny because I feel similarly used; I find it annoying when girls are so fast to dress, even faster than you. I don't like it when chicas complain to leave after the act. In my mind, I pay for time. In their minds, they are paid for getting you to pop as fast as possible, then get out to make more money.

 

[Pompal 09.]

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I just had a meeting with a girl outside the bar, and felt the experience was disappointing. We hanged out at the Plaza Rio mall, but did not eat anything or go into any stores, nor do anything really except sit down because she didn't want to walk much, eat anything, or see anything. She seemed aloof and indifferent in conversation. Often times she was on her cell phone texting or chatting online with her friends from back home. I think the only reason she agreed to meet outside for a couple of hours was that I was a regular (7 times), and I was paying her, but she didn't really seem to want to be there. Would not repeat this experience. The only thing positive I can say is that at least she didn't try to get me to buy something for her.

 

[Dream M]

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To me is a little bit funny how I sometimes feel used after a session with a Paradita instead of the other way around. Sometimes I'm talking with the girl after the session all the while she's putting on her clothes and I haven't even started. Pretty soon she's out the door and heading into the streets.

I have a special place in my heart for Paraditas. I wish I could unload and load quickly so I could have as many as possible. I think they probably need the money more than the bar girls. I used to be satisfied with the services that Paraditas offer which is basically cbj and maybe multiple positions and maybe looking at you while performing cbj are some of the highlights.

Then slowly I began to figure out that bar girls do that plus look at you while performing cbj, DFK you, DATY is on the menu as well as countless other things. I know is called GFE but that is not even how I look at it. I just love the sensation that each of these give me. Each of these that make up GFE. Each is a great sensation on its own.

Is not that I want a girlfriend or anything like that or that I want to find out how far a ho would go. Although it's very satisfying to know that they are willing to break ho rules.

But is refreshing to feel like you are actually having sex with another human being. Something that sometimes doesn't even happen even when you are fucking a civillian. Come to think of it some Paraditas give you a "married experience" or having a "girlfriend for too long experience" where you feel like you are having sex with a robot or a dead fish. That just doesn't cut it with me but since a Paradita is not my wife/girlfriend I could get lucky and have another memorable experience.

 

[PAYET M]

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I can definitely understand your point of view. For pure bang for the buck, street girls offer the best value, especially if you want to fuck as many women as possible using the least amount of money as possible.

To me, that is not very satisfying. I am not a robot with a penis. As a human being, there is some weakness to want to FEEL like being with a real girlfriend, hence the popularity of GFEs.

I definitely do not recommend really dating whores and trying to get them to be your real girlfriend. As far as who is taking advaneforum.xxxe of who, I think that is a negative way to look at things. I like think that that it's a mutually beneficial situation: a win-win. She gets what she wants, and I get what I want. Anybody who seeks a little bit of companionship beyond fucking putas should always have spidey senses when you might get taken advaneforum.xxxe of: when she starts talking about her sick mother, or broken car, bills she cannot pay as if you are the answer to her solutions; or she starts requesting expensive gifts. That's when you say Adios Amiga!

 

[John Honor]

Mutunus,

You are great, man!

A few more clarifications:

For escort call the # on the website. But have them meet me at the first McDonalds? You mean from the Cumintj.com site right? Spend about $150 us- Right?

Also some one here mentioned- don’t go to bars, instead go to the street girls. What does that mean?

Any other info and Your help is appreciated.

 

[Naomi C]

Meeting "outside the bar"

As long as you don't think you are doing her a favor, you don't try to change her, and you don't try to marry her, what could go wrong if you go out with a chica?

 

[JoDee.]

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The Punta are using YOU more than you are using them,,,lets establish that fact here and now. Even a Bar Girl is a waste of money to me. I like to grab Street Girl and F,F,F,F Find em, Feel em, Fuck em, Forget em... and should you "Date a Whore" and get feelings for them, u will get played= go ahead and Find out...

 

[Riley07]

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Hahaha. I would say the 20% want to rescue is probably accurate. However, wanting to or just thinking about it is very different from actually doing it. Sheer inertia often prevents it. Maybe

 

[coldplay24]

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"Date" a whore??? Research has shown that about 20%of "Mongers" want to rescue the girl from the trade...Since it is "The Worlds Oldest Profession" and the females control the dynamic they use this aspect to their advaneforum.xxxe.

Darshman; " Maybe this is my mistake. I shouldn't try to date putas or bar girls! Just screw them in the room and be done with it."

Maybe you could take her home to meet Mom, or change her feelings to men. The Chicas in the Zona are some of the best paid workers in Mexico...you are getting played if you believe they care about you !

You might want to take your own advice ans skip having feelings for a wHOre,,,but you wont , because in my opiion you are part of the 20% that seek to rescue or change the girls,,,

 

[bunnie <3]

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For me, escorts first for good GFE sex followed by clubs for drinking and socializing with the chicas. My preferences: www.cumintj.com followed by the Hong Kong bar (http://www.hktijuana.com/)



Escorts: Listed on website + $45 motel + 15$ RT cab ride.
HKB: $60-80/chica, $16 room, $1 robe, plus $20-30 bucks for drinks.



Escorts: Email Mundo or call to arrange a meeting at the 1st McDonalds on the Mexican side. Usually the chica will meet you there and you'll taxi to a very decent motel. Email and phone on the website. HKB: cross the border to a taxi and tell em Honk Kong bar and that your friends are waiting on you there. $5+2 tip one way. Walk in the bar, order a drink, tell the waiter or the chica directly how much for the room. They'll understand.



You're welcome and enjoy. Report back your trip.

 

[Collier P]

Meeting "outside the bar"

Iam going to be in Tj in Tue, Wed, and Thurs for the first time.

What is the best way to meet a girl? Bars? Clubs?

How much is the average price?

and How does it work?

Im sure there are some info in the treads but wanted to save some time.

Thank you.