Is it fair to repeat what I said in one of those old threads before?
"For me, the massage experience and the escort experience are very different from each other.
"Masssage is much more passive, and I often prefer it that way though I am not into "passive sex," BDSM or anything like that. It's an opportunity to just totally let go and luxuriate in the touch of expert hands -- when you can find them -- whether hard (like Tuina or Shiatsu), soft, teasing or sensuous. And I love the skin-to-skin sensation.
"I don't necessarily look for high mileage, because for me massage is really an opportunity to be rather selfish and self-indulgent -- yes! to receive without feeling any obligation or need to give or reciprocate unless that is what happens to turn me on at the moment.
"And, as others have said or implied in other threads, I much prefer a decent HJ than any CBJ. It is a perfect ending to an experience of total release and relaxation. And it's why I am into so-called Tantric Massage.
"Frankly, after many years in this hobby, I much prefer a good massage to an escort. Much easier to arrange (as others have said), much less hassle in terms of "connecting" with the lady (often, skilled masseuses are easier to get along with because they don't rely on just good looks and a wet pussy), less expensive, less time consuming, much less likely to be cheated, and I don't have to fret so much over things like VD. On balance, for me a much more positive experience.
"My idea of a perfect summer day? 18 holes of golf; a nice drink at the 19th; a truly expert hard massage; lots of teasing and caressing; a toe curling HJ -- in that order!"
That also tells you why I am such a fan of Shirely at Chang/s!
Perry