MPA/ How do you do it?

[flameboy]

MPA, how do you do it?
We sometimes talk about the money you make, how you always have to be happy, how you look and always be the best at what you do.
Well last night I wondered about the emotional strain you must go through, to sometime deal with "men" who have not reached the level of of intellegence of primates.
The strain on your emontions must be enormous!
As some of you know, I like to sit sometimes in the lounge and chat with the ladies, before and after my sessions.
I can tell you the things I hear from some "men" when they come in is god offal and last night was the worst!
Some examples:
Once a guy came into a MP and shouted where are the bitches!!
Another, a guy walked in, the receptionist stated that there was only one lady available, she called her over, the guy looked at her and said "that's all you have now, wouldn't pay a dollar for her" and walked out! How do you think this lady felt??
But last night, a guy walks in the receptionist calls a girl over, he looks at her and says that's it "it", she's a person, not a chair.
The lady turns around and starts walking to the back of the MP and you could see tears coming down her face! She should have slapped him!! I was about to say something but the MPA I was sitting with told me to not say anything.
Then the receptionist calls another lady, he looks and her and answers, I guess she has to do! Has to do!!
So don't know how you ladies do it!!
So ladies, I do apolozise for the way some "men" act.
I raise a glass to you all and say THANKS!
Love you all, hug and kisses!!

Mingo

 

[HavinFun]

Yes, I've actually seen that myself and heard it many times from the ladies in the business. Thats one of the reasons why I've always pushed the respect factor.

No matter how "awful" you think the lass might be, there is no excuse to be rude about it. Face it, in every line of work there are jerks. An employee of one of my clients used to mouth off at me every effing time he had an opportunity. Then one day I sat down with him and told him that I would no longer work with him. After explaining to him why, he turned into a model client. Always polite, now he knows he gets 100 percent better service from us.


Try and remember that guys....everyone has feelings and treating them with respect means you will get it in return.

 

[Rush]

when ever I go over to B&S, I always bring chocolate for Sande and the ladies. Just to try and leave a decent memory of the day for them.

Indeed, there are too many of our "brothers" with zero class or respect for women.

I haven't seen the events discussed ever happen at Sande's but I know I wouldn't be able to keep quiet if some ignorant shit ever mouthed off in front of the ladies like that.

I have to agree with the previous poster and put most of the blame on these guys' parents for not teaching them some respect for others.

KF

 

[jasmin2236]

I was lucky enough to meet with many kind and respectful gentlemen while working. (however I must say that there is a significant difference between massageplanet.net clients vs walk-ins)

On the whole massageplanet.net clients are educated enough to know how to act, aware of pricing, and are respectful of boundries....

I can't tell you how many walk-ins expected fs for the price of a NR... (there's no one in this world who could pay me enough anyways LOL)

I had one client who tried to force me into going beyond my boundries..it scared me...not a moment I enjoy reminicing about - it made me feel like a cheap object - a robot there to fulfill his desires.....

It's completely understandable for a client to chose to see a particular MPA partly based on her appearance...it's also fine to leave politely if there is no one at a particular MP who suits your taste...But not being chosen can play a toll on some girls.

The result often can result in jealousy or hurt feelings for some girls.

Most of the girls who work as an MPA are quite resiliant...They've seen all sorts...and have developed a backbone to protect themselves against the less-respectful men...but I am certain that every girl has days when she goes home feeling hurt or worthless.

Income in the business can be far above average...but I do believe that it is money well-earned. Sometimes the financial perks just don't make all the other variables worth it.

Be nice to your friendly MPA =)
Word spreads fast amongst the girls...you will be rewarded.

 

[Amii...x]

Bless them all without the wonderful girls I have met over the years I would be lost.
It was once said, not to say you are a massageplanet.net member, but maybe that is not right. If a massageplanet.net member acted like that we would drum them out of the club.
I wish the girls or owner would report this abuse.

 

[saraapple16]

How could anyone not treat Jenny nicely?
Jenny was a pure drop in an ocean of noise.

It's posts like these that make me realize that these girls do indeed earn every penny. I can't think of a more difficult occupation. I'm sure it can sometimes be pleasant but, like Jenny said, the bad experiences must really take their toll.
I sometimes feel sorry that I am associated in any way with some of these classless a*******.
Everyone deserves respect, no matter what they do for a living. Let's face it, hobbyists should be the last ones to judge.



OK, back to joking around now...

 

[BiPolarBear]

I believe you may have misinterpreted things....


This man had obviously read the thread by AnOnYmOuS on massageplanet.net and was making a witty rejoinder about that.


This guy was probably protesting the hideously low prices at Alphacare Massage.


This guy was probably wondering why it was so easy to obtain the services from a beautiful lady without any problem whatsoever.

Client: "I'd like a massage from a beautiful lady."
Receptionist: "Just a minute"
Receptionist brings over beautiful lady
Client: "That's it? It's that easy?"


Oh, on second thought, maybe that client really was an assclown.


Some MPA's don't like kissing. Therefore you are not respecting their personal boundaries. Bad Mingo. Bad.

The previous post was made in jest only. I hate assholes as much as the next person. Sorry.

 

[Asclepius]

makes you wonder how they do it.
Jenny7943 you sound like a smart girl.

 

[Morpheus]

Jenny7943 is a very brainy girl

 

[I Love Funnyjunk.com]

I wouldnt say brainy....I would say a well balanced lass....

 

[talker1996]

not to mention, has great intuition & taste when it comes to chauffeurs / bodyguards

 

[L D]

It is nice to know that someone is wondering "Is she always having a good time at work?" When you meet a great guy, you have a great session. But when you meet a jerk, I am sorry to say this but the session is 'paid abuse.' That sounds harsh, but it is true. So far, I have met nothing but sweethearts from massageplanet.net, which makes my job enjoyable indeed. But as Jenny wa saying, there are many walk-in nightmares. And as Sheik was saying, this happens in all areas of life. So yes, the emotional strain can be high at times, but if you are strong and level headed, you can usually think past it.

The money does make up for it to a certain extent, but I truly believe that your peace of mind is priceless. And we must do what we can to preserve it. This is part of a girl's reason for not offering certain services. We all have a comfort level and we all need to be able to live with our decisions.

So basicaly, I will only be taking massageplanet.netites from now on...hehe

 

[Raga]

OK, OK, I apologize for my ignorant, obnoxious children!
Passionate about the women....YES! A bullet................NO!!

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hi,
Just a little update, first I was happy that I waited till this morning to post my tread, as the anger I felt last night, would have cause me to write things I know I would have regretted!
I dropped by the MP after work and brought a bottle of wine and a box of candies to Sophia, the girl who was insulted last night.
It was a sight to see, two MPA and I talking and crying about what happened last night. After the cry, we had a good laugh about it.
I told her of the support given by massageplanet.net, she promised to read the treads tonight and says thanks.
She wished that I not name the MP she works at, so don't ask!

 

[Pompal 09.]

You're a good man Mingo, well done.

KF

 

[CipBerGreelia]

"You're a good man Mingo, well done. "

Yes! Well done Mingo. Perhaps we should all visit our favorite MP with some treats to let the ladies know that we care for them.

 

[Love Blind.]

Excellent post Mingo!

I too have seen "grunts" like the slugs you mention in your post.
MPAs should throw out guys like that.

Sheik is right, there is no need to be rude to anyone, especially someone you don't even know nad has done nothing to offend you!

Its a tough job on many levels for lots of MPAs.
We thank you for the work you do, the service you provide, and the class with which you do so.

See you soon! :-D

Bone.

 

[happy]

Very good point.



Mutual respect must be exercised.

 

[Chinchilla Lover]

Thanks for bringing this thread up mIngo
I hope it made some think about the proper treatment of these ladies.
We are the ones visiting THEM. They deserve our respect.

 

[soein777]

If everytime I got burnt at a MP someone got be chcolate and wine i would be a fat drunk. MPA see clients as money bags and clients see MPA as sexual objects, It is reality. There is not need to be insulting or harsh and their is no need to take things personally also.