I saw his account on stickam and saw that he's been webcam chatting with random girls. All of them younger than me. He only has 6 friends on there, all of which are girls. he's 27. One of the girls is 16. the rest are all 18-20. he doesn't have a bunch of girls on there as his friends, but I saw all the girls who have viewed his webcam....there's a LOT of them.
I guess my question is, is this something that I will have to just ignore? I mean, even if he wasn't talking to a 16 year old, would it still be something I should be rightfully mad about? A lot of people don't think it's a big deal to webcam chat with other people while in a relationship, but I'm really not ok with it. It really pisses me off to know that he's this kind of guy. I mean, I'm not chatting up random guys online. I'm being good.
I'v researched women with similar problems and they get a lot of answers like "omg it's no big deal" and "he likes to flirt, so what?". I mean, there are girls that are actually ok with stuff like this? I have known that he does this for months, but I've been trying to ignore it. It's really breaking my heart. the main reason I'm not confronting him about it, is that we live together. It would be pretty tough affording a place by myself and I dont want to move in with my parents. I dont want us to break up, I just want him to be all mine and just stop...
I guess my question is, is this something that I will have to just ignore? I mean, even if he wasn't talking to a 16 year old, would it still be something I should be rightfully mad about? A lot of people don't think it's a big deal to webcam chat with other people while in a relationship, but I'm really not ok with it. It really pisses me off to know that he's this kind of guy. I mean, I'm not chatting up random guys online. I'm being good.
I'v researched women with similar problems and they get a lot of answers like "omg it's no big deal" and "he likes to flirt, so what?". I mean, there are girls that are actually ok with stuff like this? I have known that he does this for months, but I've been trying to ignore it. It's really breaking my heart. the main reason I'm not confronting him about it, is that we live together. It would be pretty tough affording a place by myself and I dont want to move in with my parents. I dont want us to break up, I just want him to be all mine and just stop...