I'm hesitant about him going to a massuese. He's the kind of guy that flirts with women easily. To make a long story short. He had cheated on his two ex-wives several times. He cheated on me once. He has gone to prostitutes in Mexico and Ecuador, etc in the past. I love him (don't ask me why) and have been with him for many years. I'm telling him not to get the massage because I'm feeling insecured. Am I being too harsh on him? Serious and matures answers only please.