My father keeps getting mad when I chat with guys. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!?

[Chistina Anderson]

I'm a girl and and I have a lot of boys classmate. And it's normal to chat with each other. Like he text me "what are u doing, any homework, what's ur english score?" kinda like that and of course i'll answer it "well i'm reading comic, there's science homework on page blah blah blah, my english score is 100% how about ur?". Yeah and these things are really normal. Just chatting with guys, knowing his score and to ask any homework to do or knowing what he is doing is really normal. We're really good friends and we're sociable but my dad doesn't want it.

Then in weekends we sometimes gather and go out and have lunch together. everyone comes and have fun with each other but my parents don't allow me to go. they afraid that i'll meet some boys but yeah class including boys AND girls not just girls. But still they don't allow me to go.

I'm 14 and doesn't like anyone yet. No boyfriend. Nothing just normal friendship but they're so hard at me. What should I do?
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! I don't want to be in this strict control.
Thanks.

 

[Emily Grace]

Oh my gosh I'm 15 and I know EXACTLY how you feel!!! Sounds like your dad is over-protective. Just like my mom. Try calmly explaining to your parents how you feel. You have no bad intentions, you just want to hang out with your girl AND boy friends. It's not like you're going to sneak into some back alley and start makin' out!

 

[Paul]

Parents find it hard to let go of their children when they grow up. Put it this way, it's like losing a close friend, that is how they are feeling but it's your time to go out in the world and time for your parents to let go.

It just depends if your parents are understanding or not but it might be good to ask for some independants from them. Father's are most protective over their daughters where mothers are more protective over their sons. If you sit down with your parents and try to have a talk but they won't give in, you can always rebel or wait to 18 y/o than move out. Understand they want time with you and if u want to go out, set a time to be back, "ill go for 1 hour and come back and help u with..." some ground rules have to be set!

 

[Caboose]

Just pretend for a moment that you're in his shoes. Your little daughter is in that age he thinks where boys just think your a piece of meat. You try to protect your little one by forbidding her to not talk to any boys because that was the best idea you could have.
Just say you taught me enough to not to get into any stupid things and i would never do anything i would regret later.
And the rest is up to you.