My friend saw my boyfriend giving another girl a massage at a park?

[Bryndis]

Apparently they were giving other people massages.

He said it was a good friend of his/

In my heart I don't think he's cheating...
What would you think if you heard this?
It was in a public place///
I said I don't feel like he is

 

[scale92788]

you said in your heart you feel like he is cheating...trust yourself, most people say since you had to ask, you already know the answer...

 

[reggie]

LOL....I would be questioning what was going on.

 

[lagaria]

If you trust your boyfreind then you should let it go. i think just be honest with yourself and listen to what everything...your heart especially that little voice inside you is always right. i learned it the hard way.

 

[Simply Telisha]

I would be mad, but if you truly believe he is telling the truth just let it go.

 

[cassidy s]

I don't think you personally have anything to worry about It was just a message, It was whats on the message that counts. If your concerned you should ask him up front all tell him your concerns cause communication is the key.

 

[.x.Emma.x.]

I know how you feel. 2 weeks ago my 'best friend' told me she saw my boyfriend (who is now my ex) with another girl when she didn't because she fancies him. I ended the relationship but then I found out she was lying and by then it was too late to sort it out. I was an absolute wreck...I have to see a physchologist for anorexia now because I'm not eating...she was supposed to be my best friend! My advice would be that until you have solid proof he is cheating...stick around! Maybe you guys should hang out more so you know he isn't cheating. Anyway I hope this helps and good luck! I dont want you ending up like me!

 

[Chris Hansen]

Did it come with a happy ending?

 

[ConcernedCitizen]

Massage isn't sexual so I don't see anything wrong with it. In my opinion it's no more intimate than a hug or a handshake. It's not cheating at all.

[edit]
Emma's answer is a perfect example of why you should completely ignore insignificant little things like this. You don't want to become a stalker or a basket case over nothing. Sorry, Emma, but it just isn't healthy to ruin a relationship and your own health over some false rumor. Watching him every minute would show a total lack of trust and would make you look insecure and controlling.

 

[Nina]

If my man was giving another girl a massage, that would be the end. He may not be cheating now but in my opinion, he sure is opening the door for it.

 

[hookah.]

listen to ya heart girl; if u find that it's tru then FUCK HIM