First a little intro. The experiences I'll discuss come from a 32yrs old white Canadian's perspective, other than very basic words I don't speak Chinese. Your mileage may vary. I've been living in Shenzhen for 15 months, with no intentions of leaving anytime soon. I lived in the USA for 13yrs and I've played in Vietnam (10 days) and Mexico (alot!). I'm looking for local guys to hang out with and have some fun mongering.
FYI, alot of websites are blocked in China, but there are tricks around it. First you can log into your AOL account (the program) then use its browser without any issues. Secondly you can use free sites that offer proxy service, such as
www.greatwebsurfer.com which I personally use.
When I first came to China I had a bad case of yellow fever, that is I wanted to fuck everything I saw. With no friends here and not speaking the language, I mostly resorted to massage parlors in Futian and Luohu. How to find them has been discussed a million times so I'll skip. Besides the massage fee, I'd pay 100 rmb for handjob or 200-300rmb extra for full sex. A few times it was great, other times it was very mechanical. The only good part is that if the time wasn't finished (say I ordered a 2hrs massage) then she would continue massaging me afterwards.
I used to live in Futian near the Hua Qiang Bei area, where Sei Ge (the electronics market) is. Or if you'd prefer, near the Shanghai Hotel. There you will find tons of BBS that offer full sex, as well as lots of massage places. My girlfriend and I would often go eat in restaurants in that area, and she'd tell me the conversations the guys were having near us, many of them were HK guys laughing about their conquests so I'm guessing it's a popular area for HK guys. If you want to go there it's easy, grab a taxi and ask to go to Fuxing Lu (road) Wal-Mart then walk around the side alleys, you can't miss them.
I've had a gf for a year now, but I've used the BBS for variety quite a few times. Sometimes I'd get a massage for 2hrs and relax, the massage girl would play with my balls to tempt me into paying for HJ, I'd let her touch me then say no to the HJ and head to the BBS afterwards. Nice way to tease yourself for free. As for my experiences at the BBS, they vary greatly. One time I took forever to cum and the girl complained alot and ended up calling in another girl. We had agreed on 200 for her, she wanted 100 for her friend. The first girl (the one complaining) pretended to fuck the other girl while the 2nd girl was on top riding me very exthusistically. I had more fun with the 100rmb girl than the first. But no fantasies were fulfilled, it wasn't a true 3-way.
I've never been able to pay less than 200rmb for short time, I get them to lower from the initial 300-400 to 200. But then again I never tried all the places mentioned by other guys, such as Luohu train station/ Shangri-La or the Jusco girls, maybe they're cheaper there I don't know. I never did overnight in Shenzhen because of my gf so I don't know the prices.
As for Dongguan I've only been there once, it was to a brand new 5 star KTV building (opening night), the experience was awesome. I believe it was in Chong Ping, I was with a bunch of guys, some of them Chinese. I got an amazing girl overnight for 1000rmb, stayed at a local hotel. I fucked her 2 times, but would have happily done it more. Had to convince her a bit for the second time, I think she was new. I got her phone number and tried calling her afterwards but no answer, probably because she didn't speak English at all. Not sure how much the room and drinks cost because my friend and I were guests.
My friend (also white) however had a different experience. He had fun that night but the next morning she wanted 1500 instead of the agreed upon 1000 because she said "she was a model". Thankfully we had Chinese speakers who talked to management to clear things up, if not I think he'd have been forced to pay. So guys, be careful. And yes, everything had been discussed in advance, I guess she just tried to milk more money.
I still play but I haven't done P4P in a long while other than occasional masage with HJ. I moved to Bao'an and don't really know where to go, and nobody to really hang out with to have fun in KTV etc. I do business here and I must seperate my business friends from my "fun" life, I'm very careful about that. Plus I have a serious gf so I must be VERY careful.
If any of you want to hang out sometime let me know, I know Shenzhen fairly well. But I mostly am free to hang out during the week, my gf rarely leaves my sight on weekends. I want to go to Thailand or Phils (maybe Angel City) in May 2007 for a week or so, anyone there that want to hang out?