My wife ask's me to give her a massage every night before she goes to sleep?

[Martin B]

but when i ask her to she always says she's tired.

Does this happen to any of you out there?

 

[I am just being me!!]

Stop giving in to her. Next time she asks you for a massage tell her sure just as soon as you give me one or a bj. She needs to respect you too. She cant have it all her way. Stand up for yourself. You are a man right? On the other hand if you enjoy doing it for her then do it and stop complaining.

 

[Tears In Rain]

Did you ever think that you might be a wonderful massager? (i don't know how to spell miss-seus)

I wouldn't do it EVERY night, but making her happy by doing a thing for her isn't a big deal. Just make sure she isn't taking advantage of your kind heart.

 

[iblowsheep]

Typical. Women will take but are so reluctant to return any favors except for the ones that they know we don't like. They are so stupid and I hat all of them. Refuse to give her massages any more, or better yet, kick the useless piece of crap to the curb. you don't need it.

 

[Poopypuss4]

Sounds like you're doing too good of a job, or not massaging in the "right" places.

 

[Ocimom]

hmmm not fair at all. You guys need to do a little work in communication. Maybe a compromise would be for HER to give you a massage earlier in the evening and not at bed time. A good marriage is about compromise and communication for each other's needs.

 

[The Dude]

You are a push over dude. You are practically in the friend zone.