need advice

[spotlite28]

Hey all.


So I need some help here. I have a friend whom I work with and we have grown to be close friends in that she confids in me and we have a laff or 2. Your general friendship that happens at work. Well in becoming good friends with her I found out she is a MPA on the side. I have met a few of her friends that are MPA's as well. she thinks I have no idea of what goes on or what the business is about......little does she know hehehehe. My question is should I go see her? Or is this just going to make things change in terms of she will see me as a client not as a friend. I am in no way in love or falling for her as she is really hot. I just want to see what she is like as a mpa and would love to see her killer body. But again don't want to throw away our friendship as she really is a great person to hang out with and have a few laffs.

thanks in advance

NJ

 

[Firecracker .]

If you value the friendship do not do it. If you really want to see her as a mpa, then ask her and play the fool about anything beyond just getting a massage.

 

[Kurt Cobain]

Man if I were you i'd be there in a second! That is amazing finding something like that out! You are one lucky dude. Go for it!

 

[Uncle Tom]

Is she well reviewed on massageplanet.net?

I think you should ask her the menu before you get a massage

 

[tj_the_great]

Oh brother...

OF COURSE YOU GO AND SEE HER! That's so fucking hot! (Sheik, you need to get married and have some kids, you're way too responsible to be messing around with the pay-for-plays!)

kkarn/

 

[James L]

Thanks for the quick response's. I think that Sheik is right on this. As for TURNOVER. The quicker you understand that MPA's are people just like you and I the sooner you will see that Sheik hit it right on the head. If I ask and she mulls it over then I can have her and the friendship too and not just show up and make her feel way auckward. Oh and no she is not well reviewed I have looked and asked for advice but no one has offerd any up.

 

[Angela M]

That does sound hot. And who knows, maybe you'll get some good mileage!

 

[Dark Mistress]

If you want to stay friends don't go. Likely, since you work with her, she wouldn't give you any more than a massage anyway since she'd be afraid of you telling co-workers what she's doing in her off hours.

 

[Leeiiissssaaaaa]

Is it sabrina?

 

[piink]

Don't go. Think of how she will feel if you show up there unannounced, maybe you could get her to set you up with one of her co workers. Keep playing like you do not know what goes on in those places.
In the long run you will get more. In the short run by going there could ruin to many things for you.
You could however send another friend into see her, to sample her of course.
PM me if you need a "friend".

 

[laytonbensingerjr]

Wait a second now...

How does this make any sence? If MPA's are people too why do we have to treat this situation different than say a friend who is a doctor? If my friend is a doctor am I breaking some type of taboo by going to see him/her? Are you suggesting that her work is less than noble? Shiek's mnatra is to treat them with respect - by not going to see her you're suggesting that you don't really respect her work as an MPA.

Who is she, I'll go and let you know how it went.

My fantasy. To find out a hot female colleuge is a part time MPA. I'd be all over that!

kkarn/

 

[Diana]

Could be

 

[muffin]

No its not that it is not noble it's just well your doctor does not give you a happy ending and get naked with you. By doing what sheik said that is the respect that is being shown by asking if it is ok not just showing up out of the blue.

 

[Mr.Z]

You've got to be kidding...

How can you even question what you should do?

If I were in her shoes you'd be out the door in a heartbeat and no longer would be considered my so-called friend.

 

[Caiden]

Why don't you just ask her?

Tell her that maybe you'll drop by her work and get her to work on your back (maybe say it as a joke...).

See how she reacts.... and then decide....

 

[NellyE]

How about you give us her name or at least where she works. Could she use the business?

 

[Fishie<3]

I disagree.

By asking her in the first place you're insinuating you see something that's out of the norm. Just go, act like it's not big deal.

kkarn/

 

[xantia]

So are you saying that he should go see her and support her as a good friend or that he's a dirty perv for even thinking of dropping by her work?

 

[SeaF]

That's interesting.

You think that your work is different than a doctors work?

kkarn/

 

[Yahoo User]

Id test the waters a bit. Id sheepishly throw out the idea that "boy I could really use a massage right now" and see if she bites. LOL she may laugh it off and not comment on it and then you know to let it go. She may say, "sure make an apt and come see me next Wed". OR she may say, "I have lots of friends that can help you out with that" sure to treat you well too im sure. Its just too close not to explore. You can do it in a senstive, respectful way though. Dont go gah gah over her and jump right in. Could have the best of both worlds and thats just to tempting to not give it a shot. Always keep your head about things though. Its a tough balancing act but as i said too tempting. Keep us posted