Newbie alone in Phuket?

[Rana]

Been planing a Phuket trip in early Nov., and just found out my friend (experienced) is bugging out. I'm trying to decide if I want to take a chance and try this on my own. This is an experince that I've looked forward to for a long time, and I would appreciate any suggestions that you all could offer.

 

[Brittani]

Just do it. Same thing happened to me my first trip, with frined cancelling. Went alone. Best thing I ever did. Now I think I prefer going solo. Ther are plenty of freindly places like MTB,and friendly chaps like the BMs in Patong. Just don't be too shy. As for the girls, you'll never have to worry about being shy with them, as many will be very aggressive inpursuing you. THe first time yoiu walk down a bar soi in Patong and the girls are all over you, it is a feeling like no other. Makes you feel so happy just to be a man. Don't ever pass up this opportunity! You will always wonder what you missed. And what you would be missing is really somewhat beyond the inmagination. You have to experience it.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Thanks JayBee i have the same worry as Gordy459 becuase I will be in Phuket in 9 days and I will be alone. I am an expert in vacations like this, I have been to Bulgaria (Varna) and also Cuba (Varadero) but first time to Phuket. it sounds very similar though se* cities. The only thing is entering a bar alone, that must be wierd. anyway it will no stop me from going thats for sure ... 9 days damn i can't wait

 

[keep it classic]

When you see how the bars are set up in the Bangla sois, you can never feel weird entering. Trust me on this one. Plus you will literally have girls running out of the bars, grabbing you and pulling you into the bar. In April, one night I was walking down the main street, when a BG saw me, started waving and calling to me. When I smiled at her and looked interested, she literally leaped up onto, and over the bar, ran down the street and grabbed me, led me back to her bar. And she was pretty good looking, too. That was in Ko Samui, but Patong is even better, when it comes to lots of pretty girls, eager to please.
I have heard great things about Cuba(never been there, have friends who have been). Still, there is something special about Thai women. It's not just the sex, which is great. It is the way they treat a man, the way they want to look their best for you, the way they hold your hand when you walk down the street with them, the way they smile and look up into your eyes, the way they smell, how smooth and silky their brown skin is, the way they laugh, so joyous and infectious, especially when there are several together, the way they will always defer to you to make decisions, even the feisty ones who will let you know which decision is the one that will make her happy, and even how shy they suddenly are when it comes to getting undressed. Many won't let you see them naked or get in the shower with them, yet minutes later they are wild and crazy with passion as you F8ck the hell out of them. Most are very affectionate and wonderful lovers. As Marc26 put it, they are amazing creatures. They make you feel proud to be a man. :biggrinlo
Finally, if you get one who doesn't live up to expectations or meet your needs, just go on to the next. It won't take long before you find one who is right for you. On the Board here, many of us complain about certain things we don't like, especially how easy it is to fall in love, and then you wonder if the feelings they express for you are real, because "It's all about the money."
But for all the b*tching we do, every one of us is eagerly planning and awaiting his next tour, dying for the day when he will once again find heaven in the arms of his LBFM!!!! And that is the bottom line.
The only hard part is when you get back to where you came from. You don't need me to tell you about that. no:

 

[KeithOtron]

My advice to you my friend (as im sure all BM's here would echo) , is not to pass up the opportunity of the L.O.S experience , we all have friends like that who duck out at the last minute and i'm afraid to say that these people are spending their lives missing out on a great time , you friend will sit in his rocking chair one day , look back and think ''why didnt i give it a try?''.
Whereas you will look back with a self satisfied smile knowing you lived life to your fullest potential , I say get your ass over there and have a your eyes opened to a whole new world , Once you have seen it i almost guarantee you will be hooked on the L.O.S like the rest of us , as for being there alone , I have never gone with a mate and i dont think i want to , I like the fact that by yourself it forces you to interact more with people you would perahps never meet if you go with a group of mates , you will see groups of lads there but you will also see so many guys there alone countless times .
It is a great place for socialising with others and sharing stories and a few laughs along the way , I would be very surprised if you didnt make any friends while you are out there ...trust me on that one '
It's gonna be good times ahead 4 u , relax and enjoy :cheergal:

 

[Edwina Monsoon]

ive been to los 7x, and always travel alone, i prefer it,you can please yourself what you do, where you go,when you eat ,etc ,and i always find a beutiful thai lady to look after my every need!, on my last visit, i met a woman in soi post office (i think)she worked in a little hairdressing shop,which had a small bar outside ,i asked her if she would like to go out with me ,and we stayed together for 3 weeks!she asked for nothing,and was deeply religious(we went to the temple about 5 times! obviously i gave her money at the end !im planning on an xmas trip next--you guessed it--alone!

 

[Pompal 09.]

Thank you all for the support, phuket here i come

 

[Emmett]

I spent 4 trips in LOS. 2 first with my Belgian girlfriend and the last 2 alone.
It's different. We visited a lot of beautiful places with my GF and it was wonderful, but I met more local people thanks the BG's last time and never had so much boom boom in all my life.

Next time, I want to go alone again.

 

[HOE is a sick Kitty]

Something else worth a mention guys , if you go with your mates you got possible blabbermouths when you get back home as to what you got up to , especially if you cross to the darkside and take in some fine lookin ladyboys (just for research purposes of courses ..hehehe).
On your own you can do what you like and fulfill all your seediest fantasies without anyone knowing what you really got up to , unless you er... show them the pics that is :aao:

 

[liney]

Thanks for the encouragement guys; I'm booking my flight in a few minutes. Could someone please recommend a nice guest-friendly hotel close to the action? Also could someone tell me what LOS stands for? Thanks for the help, and if anybody is going to be in Phuket the first 2 weeks in November, I'll try to look you up and have a drink.

 

[HaK attack! [panda-kun]]

Hi
C&N and Expat Hotel are 2 good hotels near the action, Expat have a pool but not C&N, but its not far from the beach, so it doesnt really matters.

LOS= Land Of Smiles or Land Of Sex :cheergal:

enjoy :cheers:

 

[Joyce B]

I agree with ButterflyBlonde about taking blubber mouth friends with you, why take proof especially that i am crossing to the bright side ... never did it, had fantecies but maybe it won't be as good as I am imaging ... we will see .... LB HERE I CUM

 

[Mommy of 2 awesome babies]

Go any way...better alone...YOU WIL HAVE THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE..
Stay at Stoney Monday Oasis Hotel www.stoneymondayhotels.com
Enjoy

 

[Bret]

OK curiousty got the better of me, so what's your association with the Stoney Monday??

 

[johnny4nuthin]

I think he must be on some sort of commision cause in another tread he said to give his name when you book???

 

[goodcharacter]

WAIT !!! I thought his name was STONEY and that he wanted us to book on MONDAY .... MY MISTAKE ...