I agree...God Bless your Grandma!!!!Jelly, The biggest question is whether the "medical" end is what you really want to focus on. If it is then probably the absolute best way to change the doctor's perception is to address his concerns about how you can help his patients. I know you have a lot of professional experience in your past so it is a matter of providing him information that he can assimilate in a manner he is accustomed to. It is a lot of work to change a medico's mind and unfortunately, yes, his attitude isn't unusual. But, it can be done!!!I would approach this in a multi-level way.First, I would put together a well written cover letter addressing his concerns about how you can assist his patients. Include well chosen research about what massage can do for people with blood pressure problems and the usual gammut of conditions he sees -- stress reduction, clinical applications for neck, shoulders, hips and that type of stuff.In your letter state that you will be paying him a visit to discuss what you can do for his patients and offer to demonstrate (with your new chair) your skills in a fifteen minute demo so he can experience what you know how to do. I would address his concerns regarding the "medical massage program" in your cover letter. Something along the lines of, "I understand you are familiar with medical massage and I would like to take this opportunity to further your knowledge of what I am capable of providing to your clients. Clinical applications of massage are known to normalize blood pressure conditions..."Second, I would follow-up with a phone call to his office manager and ask for a brief appointment to demonstrate your skills -- maybe during one of their morning meetings where you can see the whole staff before they start seeing patients. Third, I would either send a thank-you letter with brochures and business cards for them to use for referrals. -OR- deliver them personally with a basket of organic fruit or teas.I know this probably goes without saying, however, it is incredibly important that whatever materials you send to him need to be of the utmost quality and consistency in professionalism. He and his office are used to dealing with the slick advertising materials from the pharmaceutical company's who bring in samples and food when they visit. In order to catch his attention you will most likely need to match their presentation style.This is just one approach that I can think of at the moment. Goodluck and don't let his response get you down. There are many, many potential clients out there beyond that one doctor's office.