I suppose that this is a very old topic however, I am enjoying this site now and wish to make another contribution.
mainly my sources are the various websites that float around, qq, msn, yahoo, icq and skype.
anything goes here and it can be a hit or miss however, i like to talk to as many as possible because it just evens up bad ratios of finding girls who are looking for play and those just wanting to chat.
see, here in Beijing, most younger people love english. so it is a base to start some kind of conversation and go with the flow. if she bites, then it goes to the next time and so forth, then possibly a coffee/dinner usually followed by a nice walk around a nice school campus with the usual bullshit stories that ive told for 7 years here.
places ive looked
1.
www.thebeijinger.com
2.
www.dateinasia.com
3.
www.dalianxpat.com
4. msn
5. qq
6. all chat clients
7. yahoo chat rooms
and many others. just don't say anything about sex in any ad. usually youll know whats going on with the girl within the first 2 or 3 conversations.
results vary:
ive gotten "girlfriends", ho's for free, one night stands, nearly married once, 3 somes, drunk taxi rides to someones house at 2 am, language exchanges that lead to fucking, cam shows, met many girls in other cities other than beijing and gone to visit them andstayed in their house, meeting in coffee bars, married girls, girls with bf's, single girls, divorced, 20-40. most are kind , smart and have the nice long curly hair that just is long enough to reach around the nipples...
another site!!
www.bjstuff.com
but most girls are not for pay. they are seeking someone for bf/husband..maybe!! have to go with the flow..
cheers