When I first started chatting over ten years ago now I hated meeting other men but as I got more used to the whole chatting and establishment set up I found the extremes that some mp.nets and maids went to too keep people apart highly amusing, because at the end of the day as you say we are all there for the same thing!
I have been hidden in broom cupboards, toilets, sauna cubicles, you name it! But when I started visiting big places like GFE Sheffield or Enigma spa Ripley where you all sit in a communal lounge and chat (or ignore each other!) I slowly got used to seeing and talking to other mp.nets, and now I prefer this type of establishment and have had some very interesting conversations
However I still remember how I felt at first so will play hide and seek to avoid other men if they don’t want to see me or the maid/lovely lady asks me too.