Package refund for client who moved away?- UPDATE in thread
New update (I'm still shaking on this one lol):
Her mother-in-law just walked in. I heard DH talking to someone (we're not technically open yet today) and went out to see what was up. Turns out MIL is the nice Englishwoman to whom I gave directions several months ago. She came in with a piece of paper with the client's name and address on it, saying that client sent her in with the information for "where we could send her refund". (Yes, I did speak with the client yesterday.) We re-iterated the policy, and the fact that the client KNEW and even ASKED about the possibility of a refund BEFORE she wrote the check for the package.MIL said that they'd moved suddenly, within a few weeks of the purchase. I asked her if she was remaining in the area, and she said yes, to which I said that the client might transfer the remaining sessions to her to use, or she may also come in and use them whenever she's up here visiting her MIL. We did stick to our policy, and MIL walked out the door very manipulatively saying "I hope you can sleep well at night, dear." (To which I replied, "I do, thank you.")
My question is WHY did she not, if she wanted to see about a refund, at least call or shoot me an email when she moved, if she's been gone for 4 months? And if she was asking about the refund policy when purchasing the package, I wonder if she knew of the possibility of relocating at the time, and if so, then why did she purchase the package to begin with?
What I did not tell you is that when she bought the package, she also convinced us to combine the already-discounted package price with a "get a 90-minute for the price of a 60-minute" first-time client coupon, so she essentially got a 90-minute session for $60. Our hour sessions are regularly $70. Since we didn't have a "cannot combine with any other discount" policy in place yet, we feel that we got snookered there too. Some people, you just kind of feel like you know they will take advaneforum.xxxe of you every way they can. And actually, when she asked about the refund policy in the first place, a red flag DID go up in my head. I wondered WHY she asked *the way she did*. I couldn't put my finger on it, but the red flag was there.
And no, I don't think there is anything wrong with ASKING for a refund (even if she already KNEW our policy). I have done the same thing myself; some times I have met success, and other times I have been told no. But I always go into things like that knowing that it is not THEIR responsibility that circumstances happened in MY life. I cannot hold it against a business for holding to their policies. If I might not be able to live with their policies, I have the responsibility to check that out BEFORE signing with that company, enlisting their services, or making that purchase.
And yes, I understand the "why not, based on the circumstances" thought process. I have a great tendency to think that way too. However, it is that thought process that has gotten us into the situations where we've had later to fire clients, and ask our tenant to leave. We are in the business of making money by helping people. It would be really nice to be able to do what we do without having to worry at all about the financial aspects of it all, but we are not currently in a position to do that. If we do not stop allowing "nice people with circumstances" to take advaneforum.xxxe of us, we will go out of business very quickly. This is my FIRST lesson in HOLDING to a policy that we've set in response to issues created by NOT having policies in place. Not EASY to do, but I must keep my spine aligned. If we took her circumstances into consideration and bent the policy for her, then how could we stand firm for the NEXT client with a similar story? Where does one draw the line? Where does one stop allowing herself to be manipulated and learn to "pull up her big girl panties"? "We reserve the right to maintain our policies!"