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Pee fetish, also known as watersports or urolagnia, is a unique kink that involves arousal from urination. While considered taboo by many, it’s a deeply personal and intimate experience for those who enjoy it. Whether you’re new to the fetish or looking to deepen your exploration, this guide will help you understand how to engage in pee play safely, consensually, and pleasurably.
Understanding Pee Fetish
Pee play can take many forms, ranging from light experimentation to full submission-based dynamics. Some people enjoy the act of being peed on as a sign of humiliation or dominance, while others find the warmth, sensation, or taboo nature of pee arousing. Like any kink, it’s important to approach it with open communication and clear boundaries.
How to Engage in Pee Fetish Play
1. Discuss and Establish Consent
Before engaging in watersports, have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Discuss boundaries, interests, and any limits. Some key questions to explore:
Are you comfortable with direct pee contact, or do you prefer a more indirect experience (such as peeing in a controlled environment)?
Do you want pee play to be incorporated into dominance and submission (D/s) dynamics?
Are there specific scenarios you find arousing?
Consent and clear communication ensure that both partners are comfortable and excited about the experience.
2. Hydration and Hygiene Matters
Since urine composition can vary, hydration plays a big role in making pee play more enjoyable. Well-hydrated urine is usually clear and has less odor, which can make the experience more pleasant.
Drink plenty of water before engaging in play.
Avoid strong-smelling foods like asparagus, coffee, and alcohol if you want a milder taste and scent.
Maintain good personal hygiene to prevent infections or discomfort.
3. Choose a Safe and Easy-to-Clean Environment
Engaging in pee play can be messy, so setting up the right environment is crucial. Some options include:
The shower or bathtub: Easiest for cleanup and reduces mess.
Waterproof sheets: Perfect for bed play while protecting your mattress.
Outdoor spaces: Some people enjoy the thrill of public or semi-public play (while respecting privacy laws).
4. Incorporating Pee Fetish Into BDSM Play
For those who enjoy power exchange, pee play can be a powerful tool in dominance and submission.
Humiliation Play: A dominant can use pee play as an act of ownership, control, or degradation.
Reward and Punishment: A submissive may be allowed or denied access to drinking or being peed on as a form of discipline.
Marking: Peeing on a submissive can symbolize ownership, reinforcing the psychological aspect of submission.
5. Exploring Different Pee Play Scenarios
There are many creative ways to incorporate pee fetish into play:
Golden Showers: One partner urinates on the other.
Clothing Wetting: Wearing clothes while peeing can add to the sensory experience.
Mouth Play: Some enjoy drinking pee directly (ensure hydration for safety).
Controlled Desperation: Holding pee and being forced to wait or wet oneself can heighten arousal.
A few years ago, I designed an exciting semi-public pee fetish scenario in Shanghai for a Canadian expat who craved both submission and thrill.
As I arrived early at his hotel, the dim city lights reflected off the rain-slicked streets, setting a moody and sensual tone. Inside, I unveiled his designated attire—a delicate pink tank top and sheer black pantyhose. These carefully chosen pieces weren’t just about aesthetics; they symbolized his surrender.
I guided him through the ritual of dressing, watching his hesitation morph into excitement as he slipped into the lingerie beneath his usual shirt and jeans. This was our little secret—a hidden layer of submission worn beneath the surface as we ventured into the bustling city.
Our destination was an upscale restaurant near the Bund, where the soft patter of rain against the windows heightened the intimate ambiance. As we were seated, he immediately felt exposed—wedged between a boisterous table of eight and a German couple. His discomfort was palpable, and he anxiously requested a more secluded table.
I denied his plea with a soft yet firm whisper, "This is perfect. Trust me."
His obedience was a delicious prelude to what was to come. He ordered champagne, trying to steady his nerves. Once the glasses arrived, I excused myself to the bathroom, preparing for the moment that would define the night.
In the privacy of the restroom, I filled a small bottle with my fresh, golden pee, ensuring its pristine clarity matched the real champagne. Returning to the table, I timed my move flawlessly, waiting for him to finish his first glass. Then, with practiced discretion, I poured my "champagne" into his empty flute.
His fingers trembled as he glanced at the surrounding guests, the soft hum of conversations amplifying his fear of discovery. Leaning in close, I whispered, "Drink. One sip at a time. Then say ‘tasty.’"
The moment of truth had arrived. He hesitated, his mind warring between submission and self-preservation. Finally, with a deep breath, he lifted the glass and obeyed. The initial panic in his eyes softened into acceptance, and he whispered, "Tasty."
I smiled approvingly. His transformation had begun.
Sensing his growing confidence, I decided to take things further. When dessert arrived, I drizzled a fresh stream of my "champagne" over his treat, watching as the golden liquid soaked into the decadent dish. With no hesitation, he took a bite, savoring the experience with a newfound sense of liberation.
His obedience thrilled me. The once-nervous businessman was now immersed in the experience, embracing his role under my guidance.
After dinner, we stepped onto the restaurant’s terrace, the rain-drenched skyline shimmering like a city celebrating his triumph. I rewarded him with another discreet refill, and this time, he drank without hesitation—his earlier fear now replaced by pleasure.
But the night was far from over. Back at his hotel, I prepared him for the ultimate act of devotion. Standing on the edge of the bathtub, I unleashed the longest golden shower I had ever given, marking him with precision—horizontal, vertical, diagonal streams creating an intricate golden grid across his body. Each stroke was a symbol of ownership, a testament to his submission.
To seal the night, I left him a final gift—a glass of my pee stored in the mini refrigerator, a lingering reminder of our boundary-breaking evening.
The experience left him captivated, his mind and body yearning for more. The thrill, the intimacy, the structured yet unpredictable nature of our play—it was intoxicating. Overwhelmed by the depth of the session, he found himself drawn back to Shanghai time and time again, eagerly booking repeat experiences to relive the rush and push his limits further.
For him, and for many others, BDSM is more than just an act—it's an exploration of power, vulnerability, and deep-seated desires. And for me? It’s the art of creating unforgettable, transformative experiences that keep submissives coming back for more.
shanghai-bdsm.blogspot.com
mistress@doctor.com

Understanding Pee Fetish
Pee play can take many forms, ranging from light experimentation to full submission-based dynamics. Some people enjoy the act of being peed on as a sign of humiliation or dominance, while others find the warmth, sensation, or taboo nature of pee arousing. Like any kink, it’s important to approach it with open communication and clear boundaries.
How to Engage in Pee Fetish Play
1. Discuss and Establish Consent
Before engaging in watersports, have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Discuss boundaries, interests, and any limits. Some key questions to explore:
Are you comfortable with direct pee contact, or do you prefer a more indirect experience (such as peeing in a controlled environment)?
Do you want pee play to be incorporated into dominance and submission (D/s) dynamics?
Are there specific scenarios you find arousing?
Consent and clear communication ensure that both partners are comfortable and excited about the experience.
2. Hydration and Hygiene Matters
Since urine composition can vary, hydration plays a big role in making pee play more enjoyable. Well-hydrated urine is usually clear and has less odor, which can make the experience more pleasant.
Drink plenty of water before engaging in play.
Avoid strong-smelling foods like asparagus, coffee, and alcohol if you want a milder taste and scent.
Maintain good personal hygiene to prevent infections or discomfort.
3. Choose a Safe and Easy-to-Clean Environment
Engaging in pee play can be messy, so setting up the right environment is crucial. Some options include:
The shower or bathtub: Easiest for cleanup and reduces mess.
Waterproof sheets: Perfect for bed play while protecting your mattress.
Outdoor spaces: Some people enjoy the thrill of public or semi-public play (while respecting privacy laws).
4. Incorporating Pee Fetish Into BDSM Play
For those who enjoy power exchange, pee play can be a powerful tool in dominance and submission.
Humiliation Play: A dominant can use pee play as an act of ownership, control, or degradation.
Reward and Punishment: A submissive may be allowed or denied access to drinking or being peed on as a form of discipline.
Marking: Peeing on a submissive can symbolize ownership, reinforcing the psychological aspect of submission.
5. Exploring Different Pee Play Scenarios
There are many creative ways to incorporate pee fetish into play:
Golden Showers: One partner urinates on the other.
Clothing Wetting: Wearing clothes while peeing can add to the sensory experience.
Mouth Play: Some enjoy drinking pee directly (ensure hydration for safety).
Controlled Desperation: Holding pee and being forced to wait or wet oneself can heighten arousal.
A few years ago, I designed an exciting semi-public pee fetish scenario in Shanghai for a Canadian expat who craved both submission and thrill.
As I arrived early at his hotel, the dim city lights reflected off the rain-slicked streets, setting a moody and sensual tone. Inside, I unveiled his designated attire—a delicate pink tank top and sheer black pantyhose. These carefully chosen pieces weren’t just about aesthetics; they symbolized his surrender.
I guided him through the ritual of dressing, watching his hesitation morph into excitement as he slipped into the lingerie beneath his usual shirt and jeans. This was our little secret—a hidden layer of submission worn beneath the surface as we ventured into the bustling city.
Our destination was an upscale restaurant near the Bund, where the soft patter of rain against the windows heightened the intimate ambiance. As we were seated, he immediately felt exposed—wedged between a boisterous table of eight and a German couple. His discomfort was palpable, and he anxiously requested a more secluded table.
I denied his plea with a soft yet firm whisper, "This is perfect. Trust me."
His obedience was a delicious prelude to what was to come. He ordered champagne, trying to steady his nerves. Once the glasses arrived, I excused myself to the bathroom, preparing for the moment that would define the night.
In the privacy of the restroom, I filled a small bottle with my fresh, golden pee, ensuring its pristine clarity matched the real champagne. Returning to the table, I timed my move flawlessly, waiting for him to finish his first glass. Then, with practiced discretion, I poured my "champagne" into his empty flute.
His fingers trembled as he glanced at the surrounding guests, the soft hum of conversations amplifying his fear of discovery. Leaning in close, I whispered, "Drink. One sip at a time. Then say ‘tasty.’"
The moment of truth had arrived. He hesitated, his mind warring between submission and self-preservation. Finally, with a deep breath, he lifted the glass and obeyed. The initial panic in his eyes softened into acceptance, and he whispered, "Tasty."
I smiled approvingly. His transformation had begun.
Sensing his growing confidence, I decided to take things further. When dessert arrived, I drizzled a fresh stream of my "champagne" over his treat, watching as the golden liquid soaked into the decadent dish. With no hesitation, he took a bite, savoring the experience with a newfound sense of liberation.
His obedience thrilled me. The once-nervous businessman was now immersed in the experience, embracing his role under my guidance.
After dinner, we stepped onto the restaurant’s terrace, the rain-drenched skyline shimmering like a city celebrating his triumph. I rewarded him with another discreet refill, and this time, he drank without hesitation—his earlier fear now replaced by pleasure.
But the night was far from over. Back at his hotel, I prepared him for the ultimate act of devotion. Standing on the edge of the bathtub, I unleashed the longest golden shower I had ever given, marking him with precision—horizontal, vertical, diagonal streams creating an intricate golden grid across his body. Each stroke was a symbol of ownership, a testament to his submission.
To seal the night, I left him a final gift—a glass of my pee stored in the mini refrigerator, a lingering reminder of our boundary-breaking evening.
The experience left him captivated, his mind and body yearning for more. The thrill, the intimacy, the structured yet unpredictable nature of our play—it was intoxicating. Overwhelmed by the depth of the session, he found himself drawn back to Shanghai time and time again, eagerly booking repeat experiences to relive the rush and push his limits further.
For him, and for many others, BDSM is more than just an act—it's an exploration of power, vulnerability, and deep-seated desires. And for me? It’s the art of creating unforgettable, transformative experiences that keep submissives coming back for more.
shanghai-bdsm.blogspot.com
mistress@doctor.com
