nikki, no worries about speaking out of turn, thats the idea of a chat forum its all about opinions, so great to see you post and let us know yours.
Reviewom my perspective, the GFE thing is more about an experience that probably more closely relates to what you might encounter with a partner, while the PSE is, as you say, a bit more exagerated in terms of performance, action or manner.
Both have their place in the mp.nets wish list i suppose