It's statements like these that make me feel pretty comfortable with this. Torito isn't the only one I've heard this kind of information from. Think about it this way: If a lady had something and word got out (which I feel confident probably would, probably through PMs.) she wouldn't last long in the amp world since there's lot of competition. Therefore, I think the girls, for the most part, make damn sure everything's ok. Therefore, it's important to see only those who are well reviewed numerous times. I may be fooling myself, but that's my line of thought and it seems logical to me, and so far it's worked.
Can't say the same about indies and the bp girls and SC girls. (I have no idea since I've never seen an indie or a bp girl or SC girl). The AMP community seems to be pretty close knit for the most part, l IMO.
Just don't do anything stupid and you'll be ok....I think.