I believe what the man is trying to say is that Lavinia has a full time job outside of the SP business, ie she works at a store or some such. He apparently knows her from this other job/location and suspects that she will recognize/know him from this "other" life as well. He is concerned that if he goes and sees her as an SP that she will refuse and when he sees her in public again it will be ackward. I believe that about sums it up!
I have never faced this problem myself, so I can give you no advice from experience, but this was discussed in another thread just a few weeks ago, but I would not know how to search for it, as I am unsure what to use for keywords for that search. Someone else may be more familiar with that thread and be able to provide a link for you.
Personally I think it would depend on how well you know her, is there any attraction to you on her part?, and many other variables. Maybe she has fantasized about you too! Or maybe she works for your mom and this would just be a very bad idea! LOL! I think you are the best judge of the situation as you know all the variables, but I hope you will get some input/insight from others who have faced this situation from either side SP or client.
anybody else have any thoughts now that his question is a little more clear?
AHG