Relationship with SP

[Beastly]

Did anyone ever develope a relationship with a SP?
Or maybe a SP can also answer this question.
How did it work out?
I know that some guys leave their phone numbers and ask to see the SP for dinner, etc!

 

[sticks]

If you've followed the threads recently you'd haye seen that sometimes it happens;re sexysophia and canadiangy?(sp)But its probably quite rare.

 

[AutumnWynd777]

I placed here for a few reasons, one is that you maybe very surprised how many MP-SP read these post and answer them.
Without us knowing that they are SP from MP!
Second there is a big difference between Escorts and MP-SP.
With MP-SP, we can get, sometimes into habit of seeing the same person over and again and start building a relationship.
This due to the time spend talking and being relaxed during the massage and the cost, compaired to an Escort.
Also some men go to MP, not only for a release, but to talk and build, though sometimes an artifical relationship.
Because of personal, family or physical reasons.
This rarely happens with Escorts, but I'm sure it could happen!

 

[jomonjimmy]

I think a relationship with a MPA (Massage Parlour Attendant) isn't likely to work if you know she is in the business. I think the only true relationships they develop are with guys that do not know what they do for a living.

That being said it is still possible to develop a real relationship (although rare and dificult) with a MPA. I think the following ingredients would be needed: 1) an attendant with a great attitude towards the business (truly enjoys what the do and treats all customers equally); 2) an attendant that is known to have their limits they will not cross which comes hand in hand with working at a "clean" licensed spa (this gives the guy the "Trust" factor); 3) the client having seen the attendant many, many times to the point where they talk openly and have developed a friendship (not an act of fantasy seesion) and 4) an open minded, secure guy that will not get jealous and lets the woman go about her business by staying away from her workplace.

The reason I think it's rare is that it is generally the guys that get jealous and can't handle the thought of their girlfriend in the business and finding a lady that carries few mental scares from the business.

I don't know for certain (maybe guys like Sheik can shed some more light on it) - just my 2 cents.

 

[Nasim]

Hornet,

You must be very intelligent, because you are absolutely right. I am in a relationship with an MPA and those are the key elements that make it work.

mustard

 

[Pompal 09.]

To each his own, but would you really want a relationship with one of these girls??

 

[lesley.mullin]

I recently thought I had established a nice relationship with a lady who I treated with respect and cared for. I didn't ask for much in return, and in the end I got burned...my thought is they rarely would work out.....so guys beware..in this case I think nice guys do finish last!

 

[Free Caledonia!]

LDB I dont know if your speaking from experiance or not but I can tell you for sure it can work. If you realy care for the lady than it dosnt matter what she does for a living. Im not saying there are not problems but they can always be over come if your mature and confident enough in your relationship.

Baron

 

[2009]

One of what girls?


Speak up darling.............. WHAT GIRLS? Whores... I mean SP's?

Look... I'm going to let you in on a little secret. There is a reason people with attitudes like yours end up as clients. It's simple. You obviously do not have the class or respect for women in general.

I never thought I would say this but honest to god I hope every SP you EVER deal with jacks you up and rips you off!

That has to be one of the sickest... Single line comments I have read in a long time. Your an a$$! Your so far beyond the point of me calling you an a$$hole... Simply due to the fact that and a$$hole is useful and quite frankly I have NO USE for people like you!

YOU MAKE ME SICK!





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Can it work. Well honestly I have dated a hobbiest and it didn't work for us but we are still friends. As for with someone else. I guess on this one I will have to keep you posted. Mind you I agree with Baron here.

 

[His wifey 4 life]

Ya

Jenn, some good point there. I am / was involved with lady SP this year. Tough for us both really, as she need income still, so wants to work. I guess we both were confused and communication was difficult. Last thing I want is to hurt her, but also in your mind is what does she want from you: money or affection, or both ? this goes round and round in your mind.

Anyway, she ist no different from any other woman, so I give her my best, and enjoy time together, see what happens.

If you are single, then there are many ways to meet people in a place like TO. This is only 1 of them.

Stahlmann

 

[uniquefashionista]

Well for the sake of clarification on my own issues. I won't take their money.

And if I do I feel like hell.

 

[Chauncey Q. Buttercup]

".....there is a reason people with attitudes like yours end up as clients . "

While I understand the need to lash out at Cosmo for his fairly ignorant generalizations , this also strikes me as generalizing hobbyists as dysfunctional and pathetic .

 

[Pompal 09.]

Wholeheartedly agree, train. (I bet you never thought you'd see me type that...)

 

[Pompal 09.]

I have stated many times in the past that they come in all sorts and forms.

My point is that this type have been poping up more often lately.

I guess I am damn lucky I am too much of a bitch for them to see me.

I would like to say I am sorry to those who are not complete fu*kwits.

In fact I don't know that I have ever met any that where of that calibre.

 

[AnaBabyBunny]

Jenn-

I really wish you would stop beating around the bush and just say how you're feeling...............

LDB-Although it isnt for everyone.......its far too generic to just say "forget it,it wont work".

 

[happymom]

Look,

MPAs are people too. They can love someone and care for someone. Trust me, they do what they do because they need the income, not because they like doing what they do to you "guys". I know the MPA I am seeing despises her job, but has no choice. There is no demands for money from me, nor can I help otherwise things won't work. She is with me because she is HUMAN and wants a future. The persons on this board who want to call them disgraceful things should be ashamed of themselves.

HAVE SOME RESPECT!

mustard

P.S. I felt the same way about them before I entered into a relationship. Maybe that is why she likes me, I have RESPECT for human beings. I just wish she would quit so she doesn't have to see some of you disgusting people anymore.

 

[Jordan K]

MUSTARD FOR MAYOR!



LOL

 

[lostblackjackqueen]

Hey, I'm dysfunctional and pathetic and if I ever say anything resembling Cosmo's remarks, then I deserve every lashing coming to me too.

 

[saraapple16]

I would like to say thank you to needit and Mustard.

Apparently my point was made.

Once again I am sorry to those who do not have an abundace of the ******* gene. I just couldn't believe someone would actually post that.

 

[puredagnastyevil]

MPA's and SP's all have gone through the ups and downs of life and love. Some have broken many hearts and some have had their heart broken from lost love(s). Obviously, when they click with someone, whether during a session or outside of their work, emotions and feelings may come into play. At one point or another in the MPA's or SP's life and the client's, a love connection may occur...love is not planned, it just happens. That love connection may only last for a short time or may blossom into a longer relationship...who knows, who can explain love.