Repeat business with the same MP girl???

[ali.a.j]

I was wondering how different it would be when visiting the same girl at a MP. Does the girl treat you differently, can you get more out of the visit the more you see her.
From my experience with a SP. She did treat me different. I would go for dinner with her or sleep at her house. I got to to know her for a few years. I think she liked my company. Regarding MP's. I have seen one girl 4 times and she enjoys it when i visit her, she actually gets excited and I have gotten further with her after seeing her a few times.
Anyway, any other stories or experiences? Just curious to find out if it's better to find a regular MP girl and stay with her to see if the experience is just better or improves.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I concur, repeats are always better. It evens turns into a whole GFE session (all within MP limits ofcourse), the more you see your regular rather than a quick massage visit.

 

[Hockey Girl]

I almost only see girls on a repeat basis.

The benefits of a repeat is the familiarity and connection that you can establish. Sessions tend to get better but, depending on the spa's MP limits or the girl's personal situation, they will plateau. A repeat customer is a happy customer and ensures that the girls get a steady stream of cash coming in. Competition is high is it's in a girl's best interest to entice you to come back for more rather than move on to someone else.

The costs of repeats are getting too emotionally attached to one MPA as well as passing up the opportunity to see some other real GEMS out there. If you repeat and eventually become a regular she may "stake a claim" on you. Jealousy is a big factor in this business. Girls talk, and if you visit somebody else at the same spa your girl will find out about it. Then, those really good sessions turn out to be poor sessions. If you commit to seeing an MPA on a repeat basis then your better make sure you're prepared to stop seeing everybody else there. Some girls may be OK if you see someone else but I wouldn't count on it.

 

[yakevinhoo63]

It depends; it's not all black and white. Additional repeats sometimes do get better but if you click right away it remains the same. I've even experienced some cases where your regular gets a little too comfortable with you and takes your session for granted. As soon as I see this, I cut them off.

 

[Voelven]

My experience has been that mileage maximizes around the 3rd session before levelling off and eventually dropping...

Why?

Well... I know this isn't very politically correct, but by its very nature massage is the SEX TRADE. MPA's are ultimately sex workers and you're there to get off. When you see an MPA for the first time it's coz you're attracted to her physically.

As you get to know the MPA during repeat sessions, she becomes less of an "object" and more of a friend. She's probably told you about her personal life, and maybe her BF and/or kids. If you're a sensitive client it gets harder to shift gears during a session.

IE> "geez, I'm sorry your kid was sick earlier this week... now can I jerk off on your ass?"

Also, you'll feel kind of guilty being attracted to another MPA you just passed in the hall. It's like you're letting down a friend who's probably been looking forward to seeing you.

TRUST ME... been there, done that.

With a couple MPA's it was easier just to become out of spa friends. That removed the guilt and confusion totally. Fortunately they felt the same way

That's not to say I don't view other MPA's I see professionally as friends. I do, and it can still be challenging at times even as an experienced client.

 

[Juu]

In my opinion, based on my experiences, you need your A-list and your B-list.

Your A-list is the very few regulars with whom you have a great connection and chemistry, that you look forward to seeing as if it were a real date. Its comfortable, its not "business", and both of you enjoy the time together.

Your B-list is the constantly changing "flavors of the week" to lend a little variety when you just want a dirty, selfish, no-strings-attached fling. She's the latest over-hyped hottie with the IQ of a houseplant, or the TOFTT curiosity that you just cant resist seeing. The best of this rotation eventually gets promoted to an A-list when there's an opening.

As others have noted, repeat visits are better because the lady knows you and can focus more on the session than worrying if you're an octopus waiting to grab, poke and prod every orifice if she lets her guard down. Mileage will eventually plateau, but I've never actually had it decline.

Maybe that's a case where familiarity breeds contempt instead of chemistry?

 

[Hoof Hearted]

I would say that right now I have 3 or 4 regulars. I find it much more comfortable than first time visits.

 

[code man]

For me I don't have the luxury of changing the time on a whim. Every week I have a set block of time - about 2 hours. I have to make the most of it. Hopefully the girl I want to see shows...

That's life.

 

[DRO]

I had to stop going to one place, A & P, because one girl there was talking so closely about how she could become my girlfriend and asking very personal questions about me.

I would take one hour sessions each time and by the final time I went there was far too much talking and not enough massage, even though she was an excellent masseuse.

 

[Parker : )]

I agree with a lot of the things in this post. I find myself in this position now where I have been a client of one mp for several years . But lately if I even post something here on massageplanet.net or be friendly to another mp at the same place, I hear about it big time and it takes its toll on you. I have only seen this one person steadily for the last few years but she still thinks I am "fooling around" with other mps, which is not the case. The only way out of this is to back off for a while I guess even tho' you miss that person a lot.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Repeats are always better....

 

[Bill M]

No doubt repeats, majority of the time, are better. But use massageplanet.net to investigate a new MPA before having a session.

 

[Pompal 09.]

If I like a girl I try to repeat several times. The comfort level really goes up, and it sometimes happens that she starts suggesting interesting variations.

 

[soccer girl 22]

I find sometimes you get the opposite end of the spectrum. The MPA gives the best experience in your first encounter, and the following visits pale slightly in comparison. There's also the teasers who give an amazing session every few sessions. One MPA who is now retired told me we couldn't get as friendly anymore because I didn't see her regularly enough. It's ultimately their decision in the end. It felt weird after that because you don't want the MPA to feel uncomfortable, so I stopped visiting. Maybe that was her subtle way of saying get lost (funny but potentially true).

 

[looby]

I haven't seen a gorgeous ass I haven't *ahem* appreciated yet!!

As Russell Oliver would say:

I'm the ass man... give you money for that butt... OH YEAH!!



RE: JEALOUSY

1.) Some MPA's are extremely manipulative and know which buttons to push. They see nice clients as a "mark". ALWAYS remember that the majority of MPA's have boyfriends, fiances and even husbands.

So while they're giving YOU the gears RE: fooling around, they're going home to their SO's.

The nice girls won't necessarily discuss their personal lives, but they certainly won't play mind fuck with you either.

You don't owe this particular MPA an explanation... EVER. As others have pointed out, if she's a true friend take the prospect of $$$$ off the table and see if she's still interested.

2.) Many MPA's LIE to each other about what they do in the room. If an MPA is busy the other MPA's while automatically assume she's high mileage or doing FS. As I told one MPA recently, a client will see a particular girl for any number of reasons. In my case it's that mixture of looks, service, personality and attitude.

I've turned DOWN activities I thought were just plain stupid. LOL

3.) Watch what happens when you get close to a particular MPA. If you're a known massageplanet.netIte/client other MPA's will issue "warnings" about your intentions.

... as if it's any of their business who's friends outside of the MP...

Also, the only person who knows what's going in my head is ME... and even that's pushing it!

 

[Meghan M]

I find that this is so true in this hobby. The girl will do an awesome move or position and then she won't do it again in other sessions. And then when you ask her to do the move or position again and she forgets how to do it or declines all together.

 

[Soraya ( =]

You make a good point Cheekers.

Try and get her msn after the third session. Then the trick is to masturbate for her on webcam while she's getting shit-faced with other mpa's, if you have a nice horn, there's a good chance they invite you over for some drunken shenanigans. They'll be pissed in the morning when they realize they just gummed a guy that pays to see them, but that's ok.

 

[Larry E]

I think he's hilarious. He reminds us not to take ourselves too seriously.

Besides, dulce est desipere in loco

 

[nOtPoOdLe]

I've found in the past if things are going to get better with an MP they will on the second visit. At about the 5th visit it goes down hill. What they did or wanted to do on the third or fourth visit, is suddenly not going to happen on the sixth. Don't know why, that is just the way it has worked. I've had girls go beyond MP limits and then all of a sudden they don't do that anymore. My only theory is, is that if they are new to being an MP, and you've caught them when they are just starting out, the whole thing is new and exciting. For what ever reason they take a liking to you and go further than they should, and maybe at first you are the only one. Then they do the same thing with another guy and another, in a month or 2 the thrill wears off, and all the guys are SOL.

 

[school]

"Dulce est desipere in loco" - latin, meaning
"It's sometimes pleasant to play the fool"

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