...I am sure this distinction has been made elsewhere (or perhaps even in this thread), but I think it's worthwhile noting that a "prostate orgasm" is not always accompanied by ejaculation...no, no, no...my experience - and I think physiology/anatomy 101 - firmly establishes this...which is to say having one's prostate massaged whilst also have one's pecker yanked on and played with is, most assuredly, a pleasurable and somewhat different experience from a straightforward tug...also, the release i.e. ejaculation at the end of a skillful prostate massage session, is fucking intense, to be sure...HOWEVER...one can have a series of prostate or anal orgasms PRIOR to ejaculation, or for that matter, prior to any sort of manipulation of the penis...actually, if you want a pure, untainted prostate O, it's best not to mess with the penis at all, at least not in the early stages (say during the first two or three prostate Os)...prostate Os are a much deeper, intense, full-bodied type of pleasure...each individual orgasm can last for a couple of minutes...and the build-up to each is phenomenal, and each successive O is stronger than the previous one...fact is, I've had 5 or 6 prostate Os in one session before ejaculating...check out this website for a more articulate description of the whole process... http://www.aneros.com ...I bought its product at Come As You Are here in Toronto...it's outstanding...one can almost say it's addictive because the feeling is so freakin' intense and yummy...
Anyhoo, there you have it...enjoy, and be safe.
Baron
p.s. I don't think some of the self-proclaimed expert purveryors of prostate massage are even aware of this distinction...which makes me laugh a lot...however, to be clear, I am NOT referring to Micaela: I have seen her and she is absolutely brilliant.