Ring or no ring

[GuyIncognito]

Wondering what is the general consensus on the married guys, do you take the ring off before session or Leave it on? I only left it on once but have so far as to take it off before I walk in. Either it’s to a new lady and nothing is discussed before hand as to what will happen in the session. I usually let the provider suggest extras as I’m very shy around new people. The age old question is “have you been here before?” And of course you always say yes…. Or just to keep the awkwardness down if we do go down the path of extras. I know in summer time I do develop a tan line where the rings is…

 

[Summerbob]

I really don't think they care if you're married or not, it's all money to them.

 

[Albertaman]

I really don't think they care if you're married or not, it's all money to them.

Mostly, they feel more secure if you are married, especially when most of them have family responsibilities (aka a child or two to take care of) even if they are no longer living with their husbands. For many of the Chinese providers, getting a formal divorce from their husbands (back in China) is next to impossible. But then there will always be the ones seeking out the older Canadian man to help life become easier... love is not part of that equation.


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[Spexx]

Only reason I see removing it is important is the finger cracking technique many ladies do. Otherwise I’m sure it means nothing to them.

 

[Deleted member 80579]

How about looking at this from a different perspective. An mpa I've seen for years has recently gotten engaged. If she wears her engagement ring into your session do you care? The responses so far are that guys don't think the women care if you're engaged. Do the guys care if the mpa is engaged or even married?

 

[MILF-hunter]

How about looking at this from a different perspective. An mpa I've seen for years has recently gotten engaged. If she wears her engagement ring into your session do you care? The responses so far are that guys don't think the women care if you're engaged. Do the guys care if the mpa is engaged or even married?

I think we really don't care about the ring; most important for them and for us the service we get...at the end just a business transaction.

 

[MILF-hunter]

Mostly, they feel more secure if you are married, especially when most of them have family responsibilities (aka a child or two to take care of) even if they are no longer living with their husbands. For many of the Chinese providers, getting a formal divorce from their husbands (back in China) is next to impossible. But then there will always be the ones seeking out the older Canadian man to help life become easier... love is not part of that equation.


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True! " love is not part of that equation "
It is just a Maple leaf PR relationship.

 

[JWL]

Mostly, they feel more secure if you are married, especially when most of them have family responsibilities (aka a child or two to take care of) even if they are no longer living with their husbands. For many of the Chinese providers, getting a formal divorce from their husbands (back in China) is next to impossible. But then there will always be the ones seeking out the older Canadian man to help life become easier... love is not part of that equation.


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Tina Turner “What’s love gotta do with it”????

 

[JWL]

I think we really don't care about the ring; most important for them and for us the service we get...at the end just a business transaction.

Exactly the right way to look at it !!!!!!!!

 

[Albertaman]

How about looking at this from a different perspective. An mpa I've seen for years has recently gotten engaged. If she wears her engagement ring into your session do you care? The responses so far are that guys don't think the women care if you're engaged. Do the guys care if the mpa is engaged or even married?

Yes, I do care, hate having rings and gem stones bruising my skin during massage therapy. It's is not cool. Not any different than long nails on a masseuse. If I actively seek gliding cupping or scraping, that's another matter.


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[MILF-hunter]

Yes, I do care, hate having rings and gem stones bruising my skin during massage therapy. It's is not cool. Not any different than long nails on a masseuse. If I actively seek gliding cupping or scraping, that's another matter.


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Especially gliding a hard stick and it is hurt if it hitting the speed bump

 

[Spexx]

Yes, I do care, hate having rings and gem stones bruising my skin during massage therapy. It's is not cool. Not any different than long nails on a masseuse. If I actively seek gliding cupping or scraping, that's another matter.


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So true. Its a sure fire sign of a piss poor massage to come and even less interested finish. I’m going to have to pay a bit more attention.

 

[Qster]

Yes, I do care, hate having rings and gem stones bruising my skin during massage therapy. It's is not cool. Not any different than long nails on a masseuse. If I actively seek gliding cupping or scraping, that's another matter.


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That and long finger nails, I have definitely walked into a session and saw fancy finger nails and know exactly what type of massage (or lack there of) that I was going to get.

 

[bigbill]

I like it if the therapist is married and has a low profile wedding band and I see her left hand wrapped around my cock.

 

[Wills_willie]

I've been asked if I'm married by a few girls, usually at the end of the session and they ask when can I see them next, hmmmmm. I do say I'm in a relationship.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

I've been asked if I'm married by a few girls, usually at the end of the session and they ask when can I see them next, hmmmmm. I do say I'm in a relationship.

Never take it off, but in my mind, I tend to think the provider will assume I am just looking for a massage and release. That’s it. Maybe that hurts my chances of an upgrade? Charge more/less?

Without the ring, (besides the fact that after 25 years, there is an indent that will NEVER go away) My brain thinks they might offer more? Or charge more/less ?

Fuck if I know. My skull is a loosely tied bag of cats anyway. I tend to overthink the smallest of tasks.

(Should I have said “fuck” in this response???)

 

[Bsmalls1]

I wear mine sometimes and sometimes I don't. Can't say I've seen any difference. I think the ladies don't really care at all.