Sex, telephones and bar girls

[common sence]

Hi,

I find this subject very interesting. I know only too well what feelings you get for the brown, silky skinned beauties. That is why it is dangerous to fall in love with them. They are SO good at making you feel special. Its their job, but the main thing that also happens is a lot of the girls have Thai boyfriends !!!

I know some of the thai boyfriends treat the girls bad, but you must realise this with most of them (not all) - WE are just a customer. It is a job. Yes they might like us very much, and we might be very kind, but they LOVE their thai boyfriends. That is THEIR choice. We all bugger off on an airplane 2 or 3 weeks later, and a new one arrives.

We PAY them to make us feel good. We PAY them for sex. Would all these girls really talk with us and sleep with us if we werent going to pay them?

Obviously, there are some exceptions to the rule, and I will be the first to say how happy I am that some people have made relationships work, but remember that you are entering the realms of the 'sex industry'. WE make the industry, just as much as the girls do.

My advice - Go and have a great time. Drink, dance, shag, meet some great people, and when you come away feel VERY happy inside that you have experienced some of the best times of your life, and think very hard before you commit yourself to falling in love with a bar girl.

If people are daft enough to send money to strangers in a foreign land, then thats up to them. If you have a girl who uses the phone when you are on the job, and you dont like it, then send her out, there and then. YOU have a choice. You are the one who is PAYING. She can do what she wants, so can you.

Have fun!