I know the subject line is a bit confrontational, couldn't think of a better one i'm afraid.
Over the weekend I bought a copy of the American magazine [link=http://www.massageandbodywork.com/]Massage & Bodywork [/link] which had some interesting articles in it. Firstly about Massage and MS which is of personal interest as my mum suffers from MS.
But the the other articles I was really drawn to dealt with with men working as Massage Therapists and also Men as clients. I am a male therapist just starting out, and I know Massage is a very strongly female orientated market. This article raised some really interesting points that I haven't thought of before and wondered what other people reactions to them are. Below are two quotes from therapists highlighted in the article:
I have fought many arguments over discrimination and caused massive shouting matches in companies I have worked for due to my beliefs - I refuse to allow individuals or companies discriminate and often speak my mind on such matters, sometimes when it is not wanted. After reading the article I found myself thinking, hey i'm investing a significant amount of my own money and time to change careers into a field that discriminates against men. Something I hadn't thought about.
(Note added to clarify: This had nothing to do with massage and was several years back, it was a whole argument I had with my employer at the time about discriminiation based on my sexuality. The point I was trying to make is that I have always pushed and encouraged equal opportunities.)
From talking to people on here I know everyone will be of the opinion of its not a problem, we have some excellent successful male therapists amoungst us on HP. But we are a minority, I find myself drawn more to the second statement being the stronger of the two - the discrimination comes more from the clients. Not actively, not in a sexist way - it is about personal space, privacy and intimacy; we are allowing a stranger to have very intimate physical touch with us that we usually reserve for those closest to us.
On my last training course with Gerry Pyves I had a chat with him about the number of male therapists he has seen go through his training programme, on that course I was one of two men in a group of about 20. He said they are seeing more men come through into the profession, particular for Sports Massage and therapies. When I did a search for therapists in the West Midlands on the IGPP website the % of male therapists listed was very low indeed.
What are your experiences of men working in this field? As therapist, client or just a practitioner / observer.
As I client I know it can be disheartening to be told "I'm sorry I only treat women", I fully understand and appreciate the reasoning behind this but it still knocks me back a bit.
Love and hugs
Foz xxx
)
Over the weekend I bought a copy of the American magazine [link=http://www.massageandbodywork.com/]Massage & Bodywork [/link] which had some interesting articles in it. Firstly about Massage and MS which is of personal interest as my mum suffers from MS.
But the the other articles I was really drawn to dealt with with men working as Massage Therapists and also Men as clients. I am a male therapist just starting out, and I know Massage is a very strongly female orientated market. This article raised some really interesting points that I haven't thought of before and wondered what other people reactions to them are. Below are two quotes from therapists highlighted in the article:
I have fought many arguments over discrimination and caused massive shouting matches in companies I have worked for due to my beliefs - I refuse to allow individuals or companies discriminate and often speak my mind on such matters, sometimes when it is not wanted. After reading the article I found myself thinking, hey i'm investing a significant amount of my own money and time to change careers into a field that discriminates against men. Something I hadn't thought about.
(Note added to clarify: This had nothing to do with massage and was several years back, it was a whole argument I had with my employer at the time about discriminiation based on my sexuality. The point I was trying to make is that I have always pushed and encouraged equal opportunities.)
From talking to people on here I know everyone will be of the opinion of its not a problem, we have some excellent successful male therapists amoungst us on HP. But we are a minority, I find myself drawn more to the second statement being the stronger of the two - the discrimination comes more from the clients. Not actively, not in a sexist way - it is about personal space, privacy and intimacy; we are allowing a stranger to have very intimate physical touch with us that we usually reserve for those closest to us.
On my last training course with Gerry Pyves I had a chat with him about the number of male therapists he has seen go through his training programme, on that course I was one of two men in a group of about 20. He said they are seeing more men come through into the profession, particular for Sports Massage and therapies. When I did a search for therapists in the West Midlands on the IGPP website the % of male therapists listed was very low indeed.
What are your experiences of men working in this field? As therapist, client or just a practitioner / observer.
As I client I know it can be disheartening to be told "I'm sorry I only treat women", I fully understand and appreciate the reasoning behind this but it still knocks me back a bit.
Love and hugs
Foz xxx
)