It depends how much of a player you are. Go to certain bars like Bar Rouge on the BUND or Zapatas on HengShan Road. There is a small street called Ju Lu Lu close to the Hilton Hotel in the Jing An District.
Can also go to suanas. I usually go to Skyline near the train station or Yu Ping.
Can also to little BBS but they are hit and miss. They are everywhere.
The ZY Bar on 1773 Xinzha Rd is a nice relaxing BJ bar.
Most high end hotels are not girl friendly. In fact, I don't know of many girl friendly hotels in Shanghai. I used to live there so never had to use.
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Can also go to suanas. I usually go to Skyline near the train station or Yu Ping.
Can also to little BBS but they are hit and miss. They are everywhere.
The ZY Bar on 1773 Xinzha Rd is a nice relaxing BJ bar.
Most high end hotels are not girl friendly. In fact, I don't know of many girl friendly hotels in Shanghai. I used to live there so never had to use.
Search the forum for more information.